lightofnur
Junior Member
Assalammualaikum. I've been having a LOT of trouble with was-was, and I wanted to clear up some doubts. I've got big problems with OCD, and I've posted my problem here so anyoen can understand my dilemma :
http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=72021
Reading that, maybe people will get a better understanding why I am going to pose questions that may seem a bit too paranoid. I hope everyone will understand what I am going through, and please be kind and patient enough to answer my questions. My mother is requesting that I get rid of this OCD problem which is ruining my life, so I decided to take further action on my problem my posting my questions here.
WUDU'
1. Before wudu' when we have the intention in our heart, do we have to phrase the intention properly (in our heart)? I meant the full one like this :
“I am making wudu in order to be able to perform salah.”
2. Must the niyyah enter our heart when the water touches our hands/face, or does before count?
3. Is reading bismillah a fard/ a must?
4. The water must reach the bone of our nose?
5. Does taking water into our hands and wiping it across the parts needed to be washed in wudu' permissible, or must we wash the needed parts in flowing water/ water enough to seep through?
6. Referring to my post in the link above about my serious OCD problem. I do my wudu' in the shower area. My family step around the areas which I felt suspicious of (referring to my above problem), and washed their legs (during wudu') in the shower area as well. I wash my legs there as well, and sometimes the many droplets of water from the shower area/ the floor of the shower area bounce and hit my leg, making me feel as if I have to wash them again. Is this necessary? I heard from someone that you have to, because you are unsure whether your leg is clean or not. I don't know. Brother Tharig has cleared some major confusion, so I feel much better, May Allah Bless him. But I would appreciate it if someone could specify it in this wudu' case of mine.
7. There was a hadeeth somewhere on the Prophet (peace be upon him), saying that (I'm not sure, it was something like this), the prayer is not perfect if the wudu has not covered all the spots, or something like that. What did he mean? If we wash or parts once and not thrice as the sunnah requires, does this mean my prayer isn't perfect?
PRAYERS
1. Can the intention of prayer precede prayer or must we say it in our hearts concurrently during takbiratul ihram?
2. What does moving "three times" in a prayer mean? I heard that if we go more than three times, our prayer is invalid. Sometimes I make voluntary movements, like pushing away strands of hair , peeking from my praying attire, or adjusting my attire so that it covers my feet, etc. Even though this is considered a rather small movement compared to the ones the Prophet made, does it mean I have moved one time? I read somewhere that the Prophet made more bigger movements, but I would like to know if a movement like the above is considered moving one time?
4. Let's say I consider my movements in question 2 (though I'm not sure and need an answer), and I have moved three times. I realize on my last rakaat that hair is coming out a bit, even though I had thoroughly adjusted it before prayer. Should I move another time? Or will that count as another move and invalidate my prayer?
5. If my feet/hands/hair show by mistake (even though earlier I have covered myself properly), does this invalidate my prayer?
6. Yawning/ Coughing. If I have moved more than three times (still considering my problem), then should I close or cover my mouth still?
7. If there is a barrier between my head during sujud with my prayer mat (like a cloth), does this it's not valid.
8. I mistakenly made the intention during prayer to cut my prayers short in case my father comes up into the room and sees me praying there and tells me to pray elsewhere later (he gets pretty mad when I show signs of OCD - again, you've got to read the post, and the ones below it to know the degree of my OCD). But then I fix my intention quickly to continue the prayers regardless of whatever happens. Is my prayer still valid?
9. If I feel was-was (doubtful) of my prayer after/ during praying, does this mean my prayer is invalidated?
I follow only Islam's way, but technically speaking, I am definitely leaning towards the Shafi'e way of doing things. I'm not saying the Shafi'e way is wrong or anything, but anything with authenticity like hadeeth, the Al-Quran, is something that I follow without doubt - as all Muslims do, naturally.
I'm so sorry for the long-winded and increasingly weird questions. I ask that everyone please put yourself in my position and understand my situation. It isn't easy at all, and I'm striving to fight my OCD for Allah, for myself, and for my family. I need specific and patient answers, if that's OK. I truly, deeply, appreciate responses to my questions. Only Allah May Bless you, and repay your kind, kind needs. Thanks very much, May Allah Bless you all again.
http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=72021
Reading that, maybe people will get a better understanding why I am going to pose questions that may seem a bit too paranoid. I hope everyone will understand what I am going through, and please be kind and patient enough to answer my questions. My mother is requesting that I get rid of this OCD problem which is ruining my life, so I decided to take further action on my problem my posting my questions here.
WUDU'
1. Before wudu' when we have the intention in our heart, do we have to phrase the intention properly (in our heart)? I meant the full one like this :
“I am making wudu in order to be able to perform salah.”
2. Must the niyyah enter our heart when the water touches our hands/face, or does before count?
3. Is reading bismillah a fard/ a must?
4. The water must reach the bone of our nose?
5. Does taking water into our hands and wiping it across the parts needed to be washed in wudu' permissible, or must we wash the needed parts in flowing water/ water enough to seep through?
6. Referring to my post in the link above about my serious OCD problem. I do my wudu' in the shower area. My family step around the areas which I felt suspicious of (referring to my above problem), and washed their legs (during wudu') in the shower area as well. I wash my legs there as well, and sometimes the many droplets of water from the shower area/ the floor of the shower area bounce and hit my leg, making me feel as if I have to wash them again. Is this necessary? I heard from someone that you have to, because you are unsure whether your leg is clean or not. I don't know. Brother Tharig has cleared some major confusion, so I feel much better, May Allah Bless him. But I would appreciate it if someone could specify it in this wudu' case of mine.
7. There was a hadeeth somewhere on the Prophet (peace be upon him), saying that (I'm not sure, it was something like this), the prayer is not perfect if the wudu has not covered all the spots, or something like that. What did he mean? If we wash or parts once and not thrice as the sunnah requires, does this mean my prayer isn't perfect?
PRAYERS
1. Can the intention of prayer precede prayer or must we say it in our hearts concurrently during takbiratul ihram?
2. What does moving "three times" in a prayer mean? I heard that if we go more than three times, our prayer is invalid. Sometimes I make voluntary movements, like pushing away strands of hair , peeking from my praying attire, or adjusting my attire so that it covers my feet, etc. Even though this is considered a rather small movement compared to the ones the Prophet made, does it mean I have moved one time? I read somewhere that the Prophet made more bigger movements, but I would like to know if a movement like the above is considered moving one time?
4. Let's say I consider my movements in question 2 (though I'm not sure and need an answer), and I have moved three times. I realize on my last rakaat that hair is coming out a bit, even though I had thoroughly adjusted it before prayer. Should I move another time? Or will that count as another move and invalidate my prayer?
5. If my feet/hands/hair show by mistake (even though earlier I have covered myself properly), does this invalidate my prayer?
6. Yawning/ Coughing. If I have moved more than three times (still considering my problem), then should I close or cover my mouth still?
7. If there is a barrier between my head during sujud with my prayer mat (like a cloth), does this it's not valid.
8. I mistakenly made the intention during prayer to cut my prayers short in case my father comes up into the room and sees me praying there and tells me to pray elsewhere later (he gets pretty mad when I show signs of OCD - again, you've got to read the post, and the ones below it to know the degree of my OCD). But then I fix my intention quickly to continue the prayers regardless of whatever happens. Is my prayer still valid?
9. If I feel was-was (doubtful) of my prayer after/ during praying, does this mean my prayer is invalidated?
I follow only Islam's way, but technically speaking, I am definitely leaning towards the Shafi'e way of doing things. I'm not saying the Shafi'e way is wrong or anything, but anything with authenticity like hadeeth, the Al-Quran, is something that I follow without doubt - as all Muslims do, naturally.
I'm so sorry for the long-winded and increasingly weird questions. I ask that everyone please put yourself in my position and understand my situation. It isn't easy at all, and I'm striving to fight my OCD for Allah, for myself, and for my family. I need specific and patient answers, if that's OK. I truly, deeply, appreciate responses to my questions. Only Allah May Bless you, and repay your kind, kind needs. Thanks very much, May Allah Bless you all again.