The role of women these days in Western and "Wanna-be-American" "Muslim" ("quote" "quote") countries is disgusting and stupid.
Women are known nothing in the U.S except something that guys use to please their disgusting sexual desires. Guys (from the age of puberty to full "maturity") spend the most time looking, the
most active part of a man's brain is that which is used by the eyes, the seeing lobe.
I came from a HORRIBLE experiance ever, I was on a slippery slope of this Duniyah, I was no longer who everyone (especially on this site) knew me to be, I wasn't a practicing Muslim anymore. The bad effect of my enviroment and society let me decrease to that horrible level, and I started loosing my Faith in Allah the more I looked at Haram things, to the point were I wasn't doing my Zuhr Namaz anymore ("because of school" and I would think when I come home, "Oh I'll do it at such and such time," but for days and months that never happened), so I went from having no faith to beleiving, and from beleiving (in Allah) I had then went into Kufr and I was getting out of Islam and I was away from Allah, and I started to understand that, but I just never became good.
But all of that is another story, I've written it a few weeks ago, and I'll post it here on TTI Inshallah.
Wallahi tears start breaking out of my eyes whenever I remember those days, when I remember all those evil things I've seen. Wallahi brothers,
let me tell you one thing, whatever the case might be, DON'T ever get into looking at Haraam things, because Wallahi, that destroys your mind, and you start having a disgusting kind of mind, and Wallahi, once you start doing that (looking at Haraam stuff), it's hard to get out of it, ("like you're on a slippery slope, you know that once you're on it, it's difficult to get off," -Sheikh Feiz Muhammad, Raheemahullah), I know this from experiance. PLEASE brothers, don't let yourself fall down like me, don't make the mistake I did, because TRUST me, looking at Haraam stuff only makes thigs worse for you.
Wallahi the sweetest thing I've tasted in Life was when I would stand up into doing Namaz (mainly this case is during Taraweh in Ramadan) and then I'd feel as if I can see Allah Ta Alla infront of me, on his throne, I feel like as if it's a beautiful bright light, shining extremely, and I understand that my Lord is that kind of beautiful bright light (because Muhammad SAW said that Allah Ta Alla is a beautiful bright light if anyone were to see him, and that's not how he really looks like because no one will know how he looks like until he seperates the covering around him and allows us to see him), and then whenever that would happen my face would get SO soaked in tears (well I had to run to the Wudhu room every time that 2 Rakah finished to wipe my nose
), and I just felt that beautiful feeling in my heart, that whenever the Taraweh finished (LoL like after 1.5-2.5 hourse
), I would feel that loneliness and that feeling as if I've lost a loved one that was close to me, but Wallahi that made Ramadan the BEST.
And all that happened after, 1.) I had made an intention that I want to change 2.) I would make dua to Allah to make me change, and everytime I did a bad thing, I would sincerely repent and ask him to make me never get into sins again. 3.) I would start coming back to this site more and more. 4.) I had to start doing my Namaz correctly (without it going on another Salat's time, and YES I know it's Haram to do so, so please don't tell me it is) 5.) I had to stop listening to music.
I had to cut down on my music, went from music to nasheeds and music, and then later on I started listening to Quran, to the point that I hadn't listend to "Muzlim Hip Hop/Rap" for 2 weeks, and then later on I started listening to more Quran that I stopped listening to music and I had cut down on listening to "nasheeds," and later on I stopped listening to music, and today I just listen to Quran and some (Pushto) nasheeds with only a (male's) voice
D).
Those things (of the Haraam) that I had (made a habit into) see(i)n(g) would haunt me, those people would haunt my mind at times and in my dreams, at times I would have nightmares about (myself) doing something SO disgusting and perverted that I would NEVER do, but Alas, watching those Haram stuff and looking at girls to a large amount makes you start thinking like that (and I'm not the only one, other boys are like that too).
Whenever those things that I use to see come into my mind (the WORSE ones), my eyes start stinging and I feel like I'm about to collapse (in greif), because those things are DISGUSTING, Wallahi brothers, TRUST me, those things just
appear to look attractive, but later on, if you start becoming more and more steadfast, you understand that it's no more than DUSGUSTING
and TRUST me, thinking that you're going to get some Hurl Yeen in Jannah
ISN'T going to make you stop, because TRUST me, I started seeing the characteristics of my Muslim sisters, their piety, their modesty, and their steadfastness, and that's what attracted me to them, because I started understanding that it's the inside that matters, and that's during the time (last year) when I started improving (and not looking at Haraam stuff anymore), that was during the time last year on TTI some brother or sister would bring the topic up about marriage, and I remember that I always compared a Kafir women, Hurl Yeen, and an Muslim sister, but I would always talk about and say how much I liked a Muslim sister because she has more status to me in my eyes (LoL I think a lot of you know that time
, or atleast some of the members that don't come here a lot anymore
), and how much I'd choose her out of the three. Actually, out of the four, because I also put a Hijabi and a non Hijabi (and for non Hijabi I mean the one that sins and doesn't practice Islam, because if they do that, then you can see that they don't practice the Hijab right, or they basically aren't a true Muslim sister, and another thing I mean is that a non Hijabi who obviously doesn't cover her hair and is modernized in the way she dresses and looks, yeah you notice that alot in highschool.....), and I'd always choose a sister who wears a Hijab because Wallahi, after I had started being a bit more steadfast and I had stopped doing those bad things, I started wondering about the Hijab and then I started having an admiration for it, and I started admiring the sisters that wear it (there were no Hijabis in my other school, only one, but her's was REALLY loose, her hair would show a lot of times, and she took it off this year too in highschool, but started wearing it again).
And LoL Mashallah that also was a factor that made me not look at those Haraam girls and females (because a true women isn't like that disgusting stuff), you know? The girls that show off, or the females that were extremely disgusting can't-mention-to-you kind of clothes with heavy amount of make up? Yeah, that stuff.
LoL the reason why that helped me not look at Haraam things anymore was because whenever there was something Haraam around me (some girl's back was too me, or something that I had accidently seen), I would look down because I would think,"No, I don't like that stuff anymore, I like the Hijab," and I would smile too whenever I would think about it.
But today, the only one who would attract my heart would be a pious Muslim sister who wears a Hijab, who practices Islam, and who Loves Allah Ta Alla and Rasulallah (SAW).
But anyway, that's just my story, but to go with your topic Zahid Bhai, women and girl's are put down in society, and the main reason is: because they put themselves down (for the most part), and another that goes with that is: because
they don't practice modesty, and
they don't practice Islam.
Like you know in those American loving countries like Bangladesh and Pakistan (TRUST ME, these are my main critisizing points, and Wallah Bhais and Bajis (from Pakistan), I'd never say these things before, but Wallahi, I'm not going to hide the truth anymore, but I'm not going to single Pakistan out, because there are more Wanna-Be's who aren't from Pakistan), were everyone seems to worship the West? And they start getting to that Haraam point that first: women and girl's stopped wearing Hijab and being modest. Second: they started styling infront of men (especially the young ones). Third: they were put on television (Bangali and Paki T.V you know?). Fourth: they started imitating the way Amreecan women would dress (and put it on t.v). Fifth: they started having pictures of "young white Pakistani/Bangali girls" from some "Khubsorti" show
on billboards or store windows in Bangladesh and Pakistan, am I right or wrong? Sixth: This "Khubsorti" (I'm not making fun of anyone here, I just found this word out on an Urdu website, Wallahi Bhais and Bajis, I'm not trying to make fun of you guys
) misconception (that you look good if you're white?) starts to spread around, to the point that about every guy (in Bangladesh and Pakistan) thinks of "Khubsorti" girls. Seventh: Now more Haraam gets out, to the point that on whatever you're watching (advertisements, etc. on Bangla/Pakistan t.v
there'll always be Haraam pictures of girls and women who want to show off and who get so obsessed with themselves that they become (what they THINK they are) "Khubsorat," which in reality, they are doing nothing more but brining their status down and having 20,000 boys and perverted grown up (retarts) staring at them, their face, their makeup, and their body.
^And so do you wonder why Allah Ta Alla had girls and women to be like dirt (or treated like dirt) in Bangladesh and Pakistan? Because: (and don't get me wrong when I say that they are in Bangladesh and Pakistan, because I KNOW that none of those two places have any real Islam, only "seen" as "Islam" (< "quote" "quote"), but in truth, there are only a few who practice Islam, and out of those there are VERY few that are upon the correct Manhaj and Aqeedah, and that is of the Salaf as Salih, which is very rare to find any from that area)
people have stoppd practicing Islam. Because Islam is WHAT HONORED WOMEN AND GIRLS, Islam STOPPED the sexism that existed
that girl's and women were "nothing but stupid and dirt" in the eyes "men" in those days.
So what happens when people stop practicing Islam and who do not beleive in Allah Ta Alla (by Hypocrisy I' saying)? Allah Ta Alla lets them get what they want in Life, he still takes care of them, but know there's a
thorn in their Life, and that thorn (in this situation) is that Allah Ta Alla will let their status decrease, until they are not liked anymore, by ANYONE, and if they are, the guys just want to "get some" of what they want out of them, and just "take off and run."
How many girls have been forced in arrange marriages in Pakistan and Bangladesh? How many have commited Zinah? How many have been treated unkindly, even though they look "Khubsorat" (meaning white or "men's greatest desires" looking)? Many. Haven't they? And how many of them acually ARE UGLY? Many. And by that, I don't always mean in appearance, I mean in lack of
character; modest; and piety.
They've lost all of their honor and status; WHY? Because they have left the fold of Islam, and what is the fold of Islam? Eman. Faith in Allah, and practicing Islam; BECAUSE, YOU DO NOT PRACTICE ISLAM, THEN YOU START TO NOT DO YOU FARDH, AND WAJIB DEEDS. AND YOU START TO DO
BAD DEEDS, WHICH MAKES YOU?
LEAVE ISLAM! (I mean by not doing your prayers (at all), and not doing or taking,
the five obligatory duties of every Muslim, and I mean not takin in ALL of them.)
(And here I'm talking to myself too here, I don't know yet if I'm a Munafiq in Allah's eyes or if I've become one of those whom he Loves (Inshallah).)
And a way you can tell the differance is? By looking at the mainstream amount of
Muslim Sisters, the ones, who PRACTICE ISLAM, who WEAR the HIJAB, and who? are STEADFAST.
A very good example that I can make has to do with Pakistan. Now I know many of you have heardof Lal Masjid? Correct? Know, whenever you hear about Lal Masjid, you think that "Those kids are extreme."
............................That is wrong. Because what those young brothers and sisters did, are things that NOT EVEN THE OLDER ONES in ANY other country was able to do. They STOOD UP in a country that was corrupted by Secularism, AROUND THEIR ENEMIES, in the HEART of Evil, but they stood stron and tall, and they had a motto in their life, which was, "We worship none other but Allah, most Glorified and Exalted is He, and we follow none but Muhammad (SAW) and his beloved followers, and WE are of his Ummah, and WE are Muslims, who beleive in Allah Ta Alla, Muhammad (SAW), and the last day."
But I don't want to get into that right now, I just want to make my point clear (because I'm running a bit late, need to go attend to other matters right now, Allahu At'am).
If you've ever seen those sisters (or if you didn't then that's alright, because I'll just tell you, since I was watching a video of it and it just showed them, though I don't look at Muslim sisters (especially if they were Niqab and are Pious), but I un-intentionally saw them here, forgive me Bajis if it might make you to feel some bit of anger that I saw Lala Masjid), then you'd have seen most of them with Niqab on (either full face, or the younger ones just let their eyes show, it's alright for me, I don't like looking at Muslim sisters (my face actually would get red) because they (especially those Bajis at Lal Masjid) have a great Status (as the way I see it), therefore, I don't look at them. They're too good for me), but WALLAHI, they had the most Eman. If you weigh the status of thier courage (during the fight) to that of those Bhais,
the Bajis would have more, because they were un-armed (trust me, even the Bhais can't launch the sticks like bazookas
, not trying to make fun of anyone, especially those sisters), but even so, they stood infront of the army (which were hiding behind the trees?) and they were shot and killed. One Baji (I don't know her name, can't read/speak/understand a lot of Urdu) who was amongst those other sisters of Lal Masjid said that she counted 95 of her dead Bhais (as her and the other sisters took them out of the places they were killed), and she counted
100 Shuhadah of her Sisters.
But anyway, (I don't want to get too much into that story, maybe another time if we discuss it Inshallah,) those sisters were
Honored; what were they?
Honored. HONORED INFRONT OF ALLAH TA ALLA, MORE SISTERS, DIED THEN OF THOSE BROTHERS, EVEN THOUGH THEY WERE
UN-ARMED, EVEN THOUGH THEY WERE FEMALES (which only a peice of dirt would kill a rightoues one amongst them).
AND?............Allah Ta Alla gave THEM, and our OTHER
Mumimahs as our examples. Try, Maryam (AS), who was the most modest of her family (and people). Try, the wife and servant of Firaun, who was beaten to death, and (his servant) had all five of her children (who the smallest was an infant newborn, less than a year's old) were BOILED in SCALDING, HOT, OIL! And she also joined them! Why? Because she said, "La Illaha, Illa Allah! Allahu Ahad!" "THERE IS NO DIETY OTHER THAN ALLAH, AND HE IS
UNIQUE AND
ONE!"
Or try Khadijah (RA), who was the support of her husband Muhammad (SAW), the GREATEST MAN, the GREATEST PERSON who had ever lived! WHEN THE PEOPLE DISBELEIVED IN HIM,
SHE BELEIVED IN HIM; WHEN HE WAS CALLED A LIAR,
SHE KNEW HE WAS HONEST; WHEN HE WAS
RIDICULED, AND
BEATEN, BY THE SAVAGE MECCANS,
SHE STOOD BY HIS SIDE! And THAT IS WHY: SHE WAS THE ONE HE LOVED THE MOST (after Allah, Subhanahu Wa Ta Alla)!
And also?
Fatimah bint Muhammad, (RA). She was his most beloved an precious JEWEL; she had his face and his Beauty, Alhamdulillah her beauty also reflected in her character, and her Eman. From her childhood, she had seen her father oppressed, but she held strong, she would STARVE for DAYS, just to feed the poor; Brothers and sisters, a Muslimah like that; not even WE can be like. WHY? Because she was SO much like Rasulallah (SAW), and his character,
WAS THE BEST FOR HUMANKIND (and for Jinn).
So Allah Ta Alla HONORED women (in sending Islam), and Allah Ta Alla still honors his Ebadehs (amongst our sisters) today. He has given our sisters, piety, modesty, and PURE beautiful character (well, for the utmost pious ones), and given her the
Hijab, which MAKES HER TO WALK AROUND AS IF SHE IS A QUEEN, WHO IS RESPECTED, WHO MEN UNDERSTAND TO LOWER THEIR GAZE AROUND, AND WHO HAVE
SUCH High Statuses in Jannah, that
HURL YEEN WILL NOT BE ABLE TO SURPASS HER BEAUTY THAT SHE WILL HAVE, AND OUR SISTERS WILL SIT ON
THRONES, AND WEAR
CROWNS, AND WEAR THE
BEAUTIFULLEST CLOTHES EVER MADE!
So I suggest that Muslim sisters that DON'T wear Hijab, you should learn about your religion more and more, and you should understand how
Beautiful Allah Ta Alla has made you (by giving you Islam), and I suggest for non Muslim women, that you REALLY start to learn about Islam, and what it REALLY is, and what it really teaches.
Assalamu Alykum Warahmatullahe Wabarakaathuh.
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