ONE MONTH PROJECT

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
Assalam-o-alaikum brothers and sisters:

Yesterday i was chatting with one of my friend. I was trying to get his suggestion on how to make this winter break productive. I am having a winter break of 1 month. During this month i will be working only, hence no school activities. Therefore i will be having a lot of time. These times don't come option. They are like ONCE IN A BLUE MONTH. The thought of making this time period productive aroused yesterday in my mind and i shared it with my friend.

Fortunately or unfortunately my dad became aware of this break and he know that i will have some proportion of free time. Therefore he sat down with me yesterday and asked me to do something really good. Here is a part of it


"Zahid, you were nourished in different countries (Pakistan, Iran, Dubai etc). All of these countries have Islamic environment. Therefore i wasn't too much anxious about you guys. Furthermore i had my extended family members with me which were also helping me out in your nourishment. As as result of Islamic environment and the family i had no worries about you guys.

But your little brother and sisters are aging up in an unislamic environment. They have all these fitnahs in front of them. They are in their critical age group.

So i want you to teach your younger brothers and sisters about Islamic, rights of parents, brother, neighbor etc. Sit with them for at least 1 hour in the morning and 1 hour in the evening or whatever is convenient. Listen quran from them so they know it thoroughly."


so after listening to him i said wow i was just thinking of doing some thing productive during this time period and here it goes i got the opportunity.



REQUEST FOR TTI MEMBERS:




I was thinking of developing a curriculum or TO DO LIST for one month. My younger sisters are 9 and 15. younger brothers are 13 and 16.

So keeping this in mind kindly suggest your opinions of what i should teach the. and develop TO DO LIST. From beginning to the end...and remeber this is character building stage of life..

Here is the calender of the moth

Starting from coming monday.....

monthLHv3-7.png








Benefits:

By developing a planner for me, you will not only benefit me but also others muslims living in USA. Almost every body now in USA is having their winter break now. Either muslims will make this time period beneficial or they will just hang around wasting their time.

So if you help them then you will get NON TERMINATING SAWAB. You will probably ask how? But see. By helping them out first of all you will get ajar. And then these brother and sister will have their kids and they will pass on the info to their kid...and then their kids will tell it to their kids...Hence its will be a non terminating chain ...


So please go ahead and lets do some thing practical. We have to start on our own. No one is gonna dictate us. SO STEP OUT AND YES WE CAN DO IT inshallah....





UPDATED SCHEDULE:



The morning sections have been reserved for Recitations and Tafseer of Quran. Any thoughts on which chapter to start first are more than welcomed.

The following schedule holds for the EVENING SECTION

DAY/DATE....................TOPIC.........................STATUS/HELP OFFERED

Mon 29/2008..........Short summary of life of.......Done/A_MUSLIMA86
........................ prophet Muhammad (pbuh)

vALUABLE LINK: http://mohammad.islamway.com/?lang=...: [url]http://mohammad.islamway.com/?lang=eng



Wed 31/2008.......Short summary of life of.......... Done/A_muslima86
........................ Sayidatina Ai'isha (ra)

SOURCE:http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=48371&page=2 (akhti..please make a bold heading of this particular reply)


Thurs 01/2009......Short summary of life of ......... done/A_muslima86/Alqurtabi
.................Hazrat Abu Bakr (ra) & fatima (ra)

SOURCE:
http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=48371&page=3

http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=48371&page=2 (akhti..please make a bold & big font heading of this particular reply)



Frid 02/2009......Short summary of life of.......... done/(xsharingan01x)
.................Hazrat Omar (ra).........
SOURCE:http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=48371&page=2 (please make a bold & big font heading of this particular reply)


Sat 03/2009......Short summary of life of .......... done/A_muslima86
.................Hazrat Asiya (the wife of Pharoh)

SOURCE:http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=48371&page=3


Sun 04/2009.....Short summary of life of............ done/A_muslima86
.................Hazrat Usman (ra)



source:http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=48371&page=3

SECOND WEEK SCHEDULE

Mon 05/2009.............Rights of the
Tues 06/2009..............PARENTS

Wed 07/2009.............Rights of Brothers/Sisters
Thur 08/2009.............(both in islam and blood)

Fri 09/2009...............Rights of Neighbors
Sat 10/2009................(muslims/non muslims)

Sun 11/2009.............UNDECIDED



NOTE:

This first week schedule is extracted from the reply of kind sister a_muslima86. If any member would like to pick any one of the above topic and provide the link, that would be greatly appreciated.
Furthermore before the end of this friday i would like to develop the following week schedule. Please participate with the positive intentions and also try to implement it in your life too.


Reaction:


The reaction of my first two lectures was more than predicted. Mashallah there was too much participation. For the first two days, i had to modify the schedule. The book (given in the url) was printed (110 pages). For the first day only 4 chapters were covered starting from ZAM ZAM... and for the second lecture 3 more chapters were covered
FIRST LECTURE:
When the angel GABRIEL came to wash the heart of Prophit Muhammad (pbuh) my youngest sister said ..yo didn't he got hurt???Then my other brother replied....the doctor was Gabriel and the patient was Mohammad (pbuh) dah.....

Second lecture:
The event when prophit Muhammad (pbuh) helped the tribes to build the black stones my younger brother said

Yo..why everything gotta be in Saudi Arabia...this is not fair...
 

a_muslimah86

Hubbi Li Rabbi
Staff member
:salam2:

That's a wonderful plan brother...mashallah..may Allah aid you through it..I will give you some ideas that crossed my mind as I read your thread and that I used with my younger brothers...

* First of all...make sure that they are praying *correctly* if they have learned how to pray and are praying...if not..then make sure you go through a book about Salat (i.e. Shaikh Al-Albani's book on Salat is wonderful!)...and then correct their mistakes..not by pointing them out..but by telling them "let's pray like The Prophet (pbuh) did" (teenagers and younger boys and girls are sensitive about being called out on their mistakes so bear this in mind)..and it's VERY important that they learn how to pray correctly!..so pay attention to this first..

* Divide the time you will use teaching them into segments so you create a variety for your brothers and sisters and so you'd be able to speak about different topics.

* I have found that the easiest way to simplify Aqeedat Al-Tawheed to younger Muslims...is to introduce it through *The Names of Allah* (i.e. Arrahman..Arraheem..Al-Ahad..Al-Samad)...so learn about the names of Allah..or improve your knowledge of them..and speak about each (its meaning..its role in our lives..etc.)..beginning with the ones that deal with *tawheed* directly..then with the ones that deal with attributes...give lots of examples..and use kind language (i.e. Allah is kinder than a mother to her child..Allah's mercy comes before His wrath..etc.)...this REALLY appeals to them..even ADULTS are moved by it.

Referring back to the "segmenting of time"...you can do the following:

* In the "morning hour"...use all of that time for Qura'an..so your brothers and sisters have what they *learned* in mind to think about all day...

* In the "evening hour"...use half of the time to speak about Aqeedah & Sunnah or hadith..and the other half use to explore history..or speak of "people" or "figures" which can be taken as an "example" to go by...

* Regarding "people" or "historical figures"...you can talk about all the Prophets of Allah (peace be upon them all)...or The Prophet (pbuh)...his wives (ra)..and his companions

* You can start with the Prophet (pbuh)...and work your way backwards until you get to Prophet Adam (as)..speaking about one prophet everyday!...or you can do it the other way around..which ever way you're comfortable...making a focus on how ALL the Prophets preached the SAME beliefs (this is important to mention for deeper understanding later on)..and how pious and strong in faith they were (focus on this for inspiration)..

* Do pick women to speak about as well..in fact..you should alternate so you speak about a man one day..and a woman the next...so you'd show your brothers and sisters...the importance and the effectiveness of piety for *both genders*..and so they see a bright and glorious example in *both*..

* Pick a day week..in which you go to a near by masjid..attend a community event..or visit a place of Islamic significance..anything of the sort..if you can't find an event or a place..come up with something..even if you sit your siblings around and play a boardgame...the point from this is to create further variety for them..and so you create trust between all of you..and eliminate any barriers present due to age and gender difference..a lot of times..younger siblings feel a little intimidated by their older siblings or feel shy around them..small activities of the sort I mentioned..will ease things for all of you..and let your siblings know that they can enjoy themselves...they might even consider it a reward for their attentiveness during the week which they look forward to..

* At the end of the month..if you will be too busy to be give daily lessons...make a weekly lesson...once a week...offer the things your siblings enjoyed the most..still have to learn about..or had difficulty understanding..so they don't get cut-off from learning...

* During the month (and beyond)...if you learn anything...share it with your siblings..and the entire family...even if it's not time for one of the "lessons"...bring it up in a conversation or as a topic *of* conversation...just so they overhear it..and express your opinion about it...so they'd be surrounded by the atmosphere of "learning"...

I am the only one who fully practices in my household...and I took it upon myself to teach my brothers about their deen...some of the things I mentioned...I did with them..and alhamduliallah..it has brought some good results..even though they still have a long way to go on things...mashallah...they have developed understanding of their deen..and sometimes they correct and debate fellow classmates and even teachers...

And I still keep up with sharing information with them as they learn them..and hang out with them at *least* once a week..we just go somewhere..where we chat and enjoy ourselves..and they have gotten very comfortable around me..any questions they have about religions..or other matters of life..they come to me and ask me without hesitation..and I answer them to the best of my ability..alhamduliallah

So really you will benefit from this time off from many aspects...and create a bond with your siblings which will benefit you and them...inshallah

Below is a schedule for one week (for you to draw ideas from):

Monday Morning ---> Qura'an Recitation & Tafsir
Monday Evening ---> Aqeedah & Hadith/short Summary of the life of The Prophet (pbuh)

Tuesday Morning ---> Qura'an Recitation & Tafsir
Tuesday Evening ---> Aqeedah & Hadith/Summary of The Life of Sayditina Ai'isha (ra)/or Summary of The Life of Prophet Isa (as)

Wednesday Morning ---> Qura'an Recitation & Tafsir
Wednesday Evening ---> Aqeedah & Hadith/ Summary of the life of a companion (male)/or summary of the life of a prophet

Thursday Morning ---> Qura'an Recitation & Tafsir
Thursday Evening ---> Aqeedah & Hadith/Summary of the life of a companion or historical figure (female..such as Sayidatina Fatima (ra))/ or summary of the life of a prophet

Friday Morning ---> Qura'an Recitation & Tafsir
Friday Evening ---> Aqeedah & Hadith/Weekly Activity (?)/or summary of the life of a companion (male)/or summary of the life of a prophet

Saturday Morning ---> Qura'an Recitation & Tafsir
Saturday Evening ---> Aqeedah & Hadith/Weekly Activity (?)/or summary of the life of a companion or historical figure (female..such as Asiya the wife of the pharaoh)/or summary of the life of a prophet

Sunday Morning ---> Qura'an Recitation & Tafsir
Sunday Evening ---> Aqeedah & Hadith/Weekly Activity (?)/or summary of the life of a companion (male)/or summary of the life of a prophet

***I put a (?) next to "Weekly Activity" because you can pick any "weekend" day to do that for convenience and so on...


Inshallah I helped somehow..and I apologize if my post is too lengthy

:wasalam:
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
:wasalam:


Thank you so much akhti for you wonderful suggestion. Mashallah these suggestion are great any i will try my best to accomplish them. But WAIT DONT THINK THAT YOUR JOB IS DONE. Akhti when ever you got time put your thoughts or even drafts here... THE WAY I WILL BE INSTRUCTING MY YOUNGER BROTHERS IS THE WAY I NEED TO BE INSTRUCTED BY YOU GUYS....

So for these first week, i think its best to work on recitation and upon the life of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) along with his companions.

Below are some of the replies that are either awesome or need clarification

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* First of all...make sure that they are praying *correctly* if they have learned how to pray and are praying..


Akhti...do you mean content wise or physical wise. By physical i mean they are many differences among the muslims themselves on how to perform salah ...like for some rafayadeen is important and for them rafayadeen is not necessary i.e there is no single unique way of praying .....however i dont want to make this a big issue.



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* In the "morning hour"...use all of that time for Qura'an..so your brothers and sisters have what they *learned* in mind to think about all day...

* In the "evening hour"...use half of the time to speak about Aqeedah & Sunnah or hadith..and the other half use to explore history..or speak of "people" or "figures" which can be taken as an "example" to go by...[/B][/COLOR]

Morning time ..for sure is about the recitation of quran. ..
I have the tafseer of Molana Mododi....
is there any particular chapter that i should start with????


Evening hours: i think i will be only able to do the life of prophets .....
I think it will be good to start from prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and go backwards.

REQUEST:

So if i start from sunday then it will good if you or some of the members of tti can give me the article which highlights the life of prophet Muhammad (PBUH) by Saturday (EST). So that i can go through it first.

Ok another great idea...wht about at the end asking question (hurry that seems awesome)....you member are more that welcomed to suggest your questions......nice (improve your IQ)





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* Do pick women to speak about as well..[/B][/COLOR]

Agreed, and inshallah i will go by the schedule that you provided



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..even if you sit your siblings around and play a boardgame...the point from this is to create further variety for them..and so you create trust between all of you..and eliminate any barriers present due to age and gender difference..a lot of times..younger siblings feel a little intimidated by their older siblings or feel shy around them..small activities of the sort I mentioned..will ease things for all of you..and let your siblings know that they can enjoy themselves...they might even consider it a reward for their attentiveness during the week which they look forward to..[/B][/COLOR]

There is like no big age difference...I am 19 myself. And the younger brother that i have ..we do wrestling like wwe. Undertaker slam on him but on the bed. lol....The youngest sister that i have ..when i m doing my school homework she comes ...picks up the pencil and run away while i m running behind her and goes straight to dad room...so i can't do anything while she is in there......lol


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* During the month (and beyond)...if you learn anything...share it with your siblings.[/B][/COLOR]

By instructing them i myself will be learning alot...how??? from you guys...


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I am the only one who fully practices in my household...and I took it upon myself to teach my brothers about their deen...some of the things I mentioned...I did with them..and alhamduliallah..it has brought some good results..even though they still have a long way to go on things...mashallah...they have developed understanding of their deen..and sometimes they correct and debate fellow classmates and even teachers...[/B][/COLOR]

Mashallah ...sister its so great to hear that...the true feelings can't be expressed in words.....i am trying to do this first of all to guide myself ......and then my siblings...and whatever positive things i will be getting ...i will send to my friends so that they could join this project and benefit from it.....

And beyond that i know that here on tti, there are many students like me who will be getting vocations. They may have plans to do but coz of laziness ...they will probably not be able to implement it......

Hence its good to plan activities on a larger scale BECAUSE TIME AND TIDE WAITS FOR NONE...


Jazkamullah khair...and i will be waiting anxiously to receive more positive feedback's from you...

Fi Amanillah
Allah hafiz
 

a_muslimah86

Hubbi Li Rabbi
Staff member
:salam2:

Akhi...I'd be happy to help...post any questions you have and inshallah I will do my best to provide you with information or answers...and inshallah the other brothers and sisters help out too...

Regarding prayer...akhi...what the rafidha do...completely ignore..they are deviated...ao'otho billah...where we (Ahlul-Sunnah) say the final tashahhud in salat...they accurse the companions and the wives of the Prophet (pbuh)..astaghfiroallah al-adheem from what they commit...and they pray on a piece of mud..thinking that it has barakah..

why would you mind their difference?...pay attention ONLY to what Ahlul-Sunnah wal Jama'a do baraka allaho feek!

Read the link below..a brother jazah allah khair had provided great information in it..along with a link to an excellent book on prayer:

http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=40218

It is lengthy..but mashallah it's great..I think I will set a time to read certain interesting points in it..inshallah

Do pay attention for *recitations* and *dua'as* as well..especially if you will say them in arabic..pronounciation is important..if your siblings are saying something wrong..they will stick to it..and even if they try to correct themselves..sobhanallah it will be engraved in their minds and will most likely commit the same mistakes again..so focus on correcting *all and any* mistakes they are unknowingly committing...whether they regard content or physical aspects!

As for which chapter to start with..I think you should start with the short ones..so your siblings can acquaint themselves with the level of the language..review what they have memorized already..and/or understand it better (especially since you will use a tafsir to expand their knowledge)..my brothers were 15,14, and 13 years old when they first read the Qura'an..and they struggled a lot with the level of the language..Surat Al-Baqara (for example) for them was IMPOSSIBLE to understand..when I recited the short surahs to them..in Arabic and English..and then gave tafsir..mashallah they drew a conclusion of the meaning from the few Arabic words before I even switched to English...they were able to understand about 30-40% of the Surah (which is *huge* for short surahs!)..

Also..since you're going to teach them about the Prophets (peace be upon them all)..they will have the chance to have knowledge about the central figures of many of the chapters *in advance* which makes *those chapters* easier to understand..because if they come across the name *Nooh* (pbuh) for example..they will immediately think..*Aha!..this is the prophet of the flood..where he did such and such..and said so and so*...

And I think it would be nice to have you ask them a few short questions to see how much they've understood..or even ask them to write their questions down while you talk or recite..so you can answer them accordingly..

And now that I know the age differences between you and your siblings..inshallah all will go perfectly..as there isn't too much of a gap..that makes all of you close to each other in one way or another..so that is an advantage which you should pay close attention to! :)

Like I said earlier..if you need anything just post it here..and inshallah I will help you the best I can...and I will try to look up a nice article or summary of the life of the Prophet (pbuh)...perhaps maybe you beat me and find one here on TTI..but I will be on the matter inshallah..even if I won't find something..I will let you know

I will be back to check on things...and inshallah all will go well...

:wasalam:



 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
:salam2:

Akhi...I'd be happy to help...post any questions you have and inshallah I will do my best to provide you with information or answers...and inshallah the other brothers and sisters help out too...
:wasalam:
Inshallah i will post them here..
.i was trying to pm you ..then then found that you didn't allowed pm.....however no problem since i can get you here:SMILY288:...

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Regarding prayer...akhi...what the rafidha do...completely ignore..they are deviated...ao'otho billah...where we (Ahlul-Sunnah) say the final tashahhud in salat...they accurse the companions and the wives of the Prophet (pbuh)..astaghfiroallah al-adheem from what they commit...and they pray on a piece of mud..thinking that it has barakah..[/B][/COLOR]

Nice emotional sentences ..
.but you completely misunderstood me on that.. I was referring to something else....however ignore it completely


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Like I said earlier..if you need anything just post it here..and inshallah I will help you the best I can...and I will try to look up a nice article or summary of the life of the Prophet (pbuh)...perhaps maybe you beat me and find one here on TTI..but I will be on the matter inshallah..even if I won't find something..I will let you know[/B][/COLOR]

Thats so good of you.. I have updated the schedule and put that at the top ..on the very first reply....DONT FORGET TO SEE IT OVER...feel free to pick any more from there ...i know you will



Sister i have trust in you ..inshallah you can do it (YES YOU CAN).....and eventhough if i beat you...your work will be given priority over my work....deal.....so no worries...

JAZAKUMULLAH KHAIR...for your kind and humble help.
 

Mabsoot

Amir
Staff member
assalamu alaykum,

The time only be beneficial if there is an authentic selection of books and sources used to be learnt from. Otherwise, what is point of dedicating time to pursuing knowledge from the wrong places?

Tawheed, Kitab Tawheed

Tawheed for Kids, a nice illustrated book about Tawheed for Children

There are other good authentic articles here:

Islamic articles library

You would make use of this it is good too:


Structured study of classical books, written by the great scholars of the past:
http://www.islamlecture.com/index.htm

Lectures and books by the Late Shaykh Dr Saleh Saleh, student of Shaykh Ibn Uthaimeen (rahimahumullah)
http://understand-islam.net/site/

Various lectures from different scholars and different topics, in English, Arabic and Urdu
http://www.salafitapes.com

We need also structure our time for when we are not in holidays,

-- Memorisation / Quran reading, listen to Shaykh Hosari (rahimahullah) and repeat after him, all the Quran teachers I have studied with, have recommended Shaykh Hosari.
 

xSharingan01x

TraVeLer
Assalam-o-alaikum brothers and sisters:

Yesterday i was chatting with one of my friend. I was trying to get his suggestion on how to make this winter break productive. I am having a winter break of 1 month. During this month i will be working only, hence no school activities. Therefore i will be having a lot of time. These times don't come option. They are like ONCE IN A BLUE MONTH. The thought of making this time period productive aroused yesterday in my mind and i shared it with my friend.

Fortunately or unfortunately my dad became aware of this break and he know that i will have some proportion of free time. Therefore he sat down with me yesterday and asked me to do something really good. Here is a part of it


"Zahid, you were nourished in different countries (Pakistan, Iran, Dubai etc). All of these countries have Islamic environment. Therefore i wasn't too much anxious about you guys. Furthermore i had my extended family members with me which were also helping me out in your nourishment. As as result of Islamic environment and the family i had no worries about you guys.

But your little brother and sisters are aging up in an unislamic environment. They have all these fitnahs in front of them. They are in their critical age group.

So i want you to teach your younger brothers and sisters about Islamic, rights of parents, brother, neighbor etc. Sit with them for at least 1 hour in the morning and 1 hour in the evening or whatever is convenient. Listen quran from them so they know it thoroughly."


so after listening to him i said wow i was just thinking of doing some thing productive during this time period and here it goes i got the opportunity.



REQUEST FOR TTI MEMBERS:




I was thinking of developing a curriculum or TO DO LIST for one month. My younger sisters are 9 and 15. younger brothers are 13 and 16.

So keeping this in mind kindly suggest your opinions of what i should teach the. and develop TO DO LIST. From beginning to the end...and remeber this is character building stage of life..

Here is the calender of the moth

Starting from coming monday.....

monthLHv3-7.png








Benefits:

By developing a planner for me, you will not only benefit me but also others muslims living in USA. Almost every body now in USA is having their winter break now. Either muslims will make this time period beneficial or they will just hang around wasting their time.

So if you help them then you will get NON TERMINATING SAWAB. You will probably ask how? But see. By helping them out first of all you will get ajar. And then these brother and sister will have their kids and they will pass on the info to their kid...and then their kids will tell it to their kids...Hence its will be a non terminating chain ...


So please go ahead and lets do some thing practical. We have to start on our own. No one is gonna dictate us. SO STEP OUT AND YES WE CAN DO IT inshallah....





UPDATED SCHEDULE:



The morning sections have been reserved for Recitations and Tafseer of Quran. Any thoughts on which chapter to start first are more than welcomed.

DAY/DATE........................TIME FRAME..................TOPIC.........................STATUS/HELP OFFER

Monday 29/2008..................Evening......................Short summary of life of ..........not done/
........................................................................prophet Muhammad (pbuh).......(A_MUSLIMAH)

Tues 30/2008..................Evening............................short summary of life of ............not done
.......................................................................................Aisha (ra)

Wed 31/2008..................Evening.............................Short summary of life of......... not done
...................................................................................Hazrat Abu Bakr (ra)

Thurs 01/2009.................Evening............................Short summary of life of ..........not done
.......................................................................................fatima (ra)

Frid 02/2009............... Evening............................Short summary of life of............Not done
..................................................................................Hazrat Omar (ra)

Sat 03/2009.................Evening...........................Short summary of life of ............Not done
.........................................................................Hazrat Aisha (the wife of Pharoh)

Sun 04/2009.................Evening............................Short summary of life of............Not done
....................................................................................Hazrat Usman (ra)





NOTE:

This first week schedule is extracted from the reply of kind sister a_muslima86. If any member would like to pick any one of the above topic and provide the link, that would be greatly appreciated.
Furthermore before the end of this friday i would like to develop the following week schedule. Please participate with the positive intentions and also try to implement it in your life too.

:salam2:

Masha Allah! This is a Very praiseworthy task you took upon yourself.
That is a nice schedule you made for yourself, perhaps I should copy it and use it for myself.

I would recommend that you instill some understanding of Islamic history, so they can be proud and develop an Islamic identify rather than nationalistic one or none at all.
You can do this by showing them documentaries, videos, sharing literature, etc... (Islamic history video sections have some good ones)

Sister Mulimah, gave some wonderful recommendations.

I would like to volunteer to provide information on Umar Ibn Al-Khattab (May Allah be pleased with him). I can provide you with literature, articles, lectures and similar things.
How old are your brothers and sisters? I'm curious because if they are really young then I would focus on gathering knowledge that are directed toward the youth

Do you want us to share the information we gather in this thread?

:wasalam:
 

a_muslimah86

Hubbi Li Rabbi
Staff member
:salam2:

Akhi...I found a website that has detailed history about the Life of The Prophet (pbuh)...it is in a story-book format...and it begins at the life of Prophet Abraham (pbuh)...so mashallah it gives you details about *why the prophet (pbuh) was born in Makkah and such*..I got into it and forgot that I am supposed to post a link for you because it is so nicely and written...

If you want to skip to where "the story" speaks about the Prophet (pbuh)...

Look at the bottom..you'll see page numbers..go to Page 13 or the section titled "The Promise At Zamzam"..and the story of the Prophet (pbuh) will sort of begin there...

And here is the link:

http://mohammad.islamway.com/?lang=eng

Here is another website that I found from the same link I just posted:

http://www.islam-guide.com/

Now the guide is aimed at *non-muslims*...but you can certainly benefit from it because the information will obviously be *very simplified* and straight to the point..so you can use it to help explain the main topics of Islam..and perhaps even be reminded of the ones you forgot to note...

I will be looking for articles or websites dealing with the figures you have put in this week's schedule...(for Sat. the 3rd..please make sure you correct the name of the wife of the pharaoh to Asiya..you have accidentally put Ai'isha :))

So inshallah I will be back again for sure!...

Alhamduliallah that you have trusted me enough to assist you in this matter..inshallah..I will be able to provide you with what you need..and I am sorry about the PM deal..it's a personal preference and personal support for TTI's rules regarding messaging between opposite genders...I hope you understand :)


Brother Sharingan...

The ages of the brother's siblings are as follows:

Two Brothers ages 16 & 13
Two Sisters ages 15 & 9

So if you have access to books and/or links directed at the youth..I think it would be of great benefit..I unfortunately don't have access to material of this sort :(


:wasalam:
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
:salam2:
Masha Allah! This is a Very praiseworthy task you took upon yourself.
That is a nice schedule you made for yourself, perhaps I should copy it and use it for myself.
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KAY-MO-NACHO AKHI:SMILY149:
Mashallah brother it will very pleasing if you can implement/copy it also for yourself. Inshallah you will not loose anything, I GUARANTEE IT. However you will gain at least some thing.
Brother i think, you should also try to do the same with your siblings. You are a student like me, so i assume that you are having holidays. So its the best and perfect time for you to gain something. Just give it a shot.
I know satan is very slick, HE would say...YO WHY YOU GOTTA DO IT, YOU ARE MASHALLAH VERY EDUCATED, YOU DON'T NEED ANYTHING MORE.....AND REGARDING BROTHER,,PARENTS ARE NOURISHING THEM SO I DON'T HAVE TO WORRY....YOU ARE ONLY A KID .......JUST GO OUT AND PLAY CRICKET OR ANY OTHER SPORTS,,,,OH LET GO TO FRIENDS HOUSE AND PLAY "CALL OF DUTY" LOL

These thoughts will come in to your mind..But don't pay heed to these thoughts....... just to motivate you let me tell you tell sth.

"Mohammad Bin Qasem was only 17 when he conquered debal killa, sindh etc" only 17.
So brother give it a shot.......

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I would recommend that you instill some understanding of Islamic history, so they can be proud and develop an Islamic identify rather than nationalistic one or none at all.
You suggestion is noted brother... Inshallah i will try to fit it, in one of the schedule of the month


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I would like to volunteer to provide information on Umar Ibn Al-Khattab (May Allah be pleased with him). I can provide you with literature, articles, lectures and similar things.
How old are your brothers and sisters? I'm curious because if they are really young then I would focus on gathering knowledge that are directed toward the youth

Jazakumullah khair brother..may Allah reward you for this.
My younger sisters are 9 and 15. younger brothers are 13 and 16.

Akhi..its up to you what to provide. I personally think the articles would work better however you could disagree about that. I think you are good enough to determine....(I SAY THAT COZ I KNOW YOU WOULD DO IT).
The total time spent will be 1 hour ...50 min for the material and 10min for the Q and A session. So besides articles please try to suggest some questions....


Once again brother, thanks you very much for volunteering. Inshallah Allah will reward you for this continuous, non terminating source of sawab


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Do you want us to share the information we gather in this thread?

I personally think, it would be better if we can share it here. Because it would benefit many people if we put here on tti...
But so far i am undecided on how to present it here.....any idea??/
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
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Akhi...I found a website that has detailed history about the Life of The Prophet (pbuh)...it is in a story-book format...and it begins at the life of Prophet Abraham (pbuh)...so mashallah it gives you details about *why the prophet (pbuh) was born in Makkah and such*..I got into it and forgot that I am supposed to post a link for you because it is so nicely and written...



Mashallah akhti...i went to that link and read a part of it. Mashallah it is well organized, well structured and deeply informative. I, myself got, got into it and want to read the whole book. But it was too long to read online and my eyes were not permitting me to read it online. Inshallah i will take out a print of it and read it because mashaallah it is sooo good....

Inshallah i will be using that for Monday. As, previously informed the session will be 50 min and 1o min for q and a session. So if you can suggest any particular event/section from that book it would be nice Since that book is 110 pages long (i downloaded it) and i cant cover the whole thing. If you can just suggest the topic from that book, which i should cover for the first lesson that will be awesome. This is my first time ever doing this, so kinda confused ..lol....BUT mashallah when i have sisters like you then why need to worry.........:lol:

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I will be looking for articles or websites dealing with the figures you have put in this week's schedule...(for Sat. the 3rd..please make sure you correct the name of the wife of the pharaoh to Asiya..you have accidentally put Ai'isha :))
Greatt... Now i know who to look for in future....hmmm...
Yes i changed it and thanks for letting me know before any body else saw it....
Mashallah its so pleasing to have sisters like you...really it is...for real


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Alhamduliallah that you have trusted me enough to assist you in this matter..inshallah..I will be able to provide you with what you need..and I am sorry about the PM deal..it's a personal preference and personal support for TTI's rules regarding messaging between opposite genders...I hope you understand :)
PM is just another mode of communication. Since this mode of communications is very effective so i dont need to worry about. And please dont be sorry...BE RIGHT AND STRONG.....

When i was thinking of this project i had no idea how to start. Since i never did such projects on my own. This is my first time never. But now i am forseeing that this project will be one of the most effective one. Because i have the support of such caring members. ......jazakumullah

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xSharingan01x

TraVeLer
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I apologize for the late response.
I thought about compiling a series of article based on my own reading and sources (books, lectures, etc...), but as I was researching about Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) I came across a brother who already did what you're looking for.

He actually did a wonderful job! He posted information about Umar (may allah be pleased with him), in a chronological order. The main reason why I choose to use his post as a general framework is because they are not too lengthy, and they are not like the short summaries you tend to find on the internet. The language is not very difficult to understand either. :)

I was unable to verify his sources since they are all in Arabic, however I compared everything I know about Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) and I did not find any notable difference.

(I'm sure there might be few mistakes here and there). I ask the brothers and sisters on TTI to correct any mistake that you find. :)

In any case, I will try to add more sources to these posts but in the meantime I will post what the Brother wrote.
I'm thinking about just making one post per week?
That way you can read and review and give time to other field of studies. This will give other brothers/sisters here time to correct any mistakes that I've overlooked.

In his own words "Once again, just as a nice change I figured I might continue with the lives of the Stars around Rasuallah :saw: Last time I typed up the life of Abu Bakr ®, and Insha'Allah this time I'll type up stories from amongst the life of Omar ibn Al-Khattab ®, and I'm hoping like last time, that we can go in a chronological order, starting from birth and early life, through the time of the Prophet :saw:, through his khilafah (rule) to his death. And please I want as many people to engage and post up as much as they can, so please don't be shy. I will also be linking some of the posts from this thread, and from the Abu Bakr ®thread also. I want this to be as dense as possible... all things Omar ibn Al-Khattab ®.

The sources that I Insha'Allah will be using, just for the benefit of everyone, and so I don't need to say it every time are all however in arabic.

Amr Khaled: Nalkal-ahibah (Meet the beloved ones)- Omar ibn Al-Khattab (audio tapes)
Sheikh Ali Tahtawi: Akhbar Omar (News/doings of Omar)
Ibn Al-Jawzi: Manaikib Omar ibn Al-Khattab (Character of Omar ibn Al-Khattab)
Professor/Dr Mohammah Rid'ah: Al-Farouq Omar ibn Al-Khattab
Dr. Omar Al-Tilmisani: Shaheed Al-Mihrab- Omar ibn Al-Khattab (The matyr in the Niche)
Professor Al-A'qad: Abqare'at Omar (The genius of Omar)
Dr. Ghalib Abdel-Kafey Al-Qurashi: The first political doings of Al-Farouq (doctorate)
Dr Tariq As-Siwadan: Nujum Hawl Al-Rasul (Stars around the Rasul)- Omar ibn Al-Khattab (audio tapes)



I will include the content of his post in the following post.
Please read and participate!

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xSharingan01x

TraVeLer
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*the content that is in color blue and in brackets are my words*


Let us start Insha'Allah....


"His full name is Omar ibn Al-Khattab ibn Nufayl ibn Abdel-O'zah ibn Ka'ab ibn Lu'ay ibn Fh'ir (spelling). He is a descendant from Qurayash and is connected to the Prophet :saw: through the fourth grandfather.
He is from a tribe called Bani-Ade'e. His tribe was the one in charge of diplomacy and he was the ambassador to Quraysh. As in- if there were problems between Qurayash and any other tribe, Bani Ade'e would be in charge of sorting it out.

So before Islam he was very well known and very well respected through his lineage, his character and his build.
Like Qurayash he would worship Idols, and heavily drink alcohol, it is also said that he was a womanizer. So despite the great honor and position he had in Qurayash he was filled with problems.
And this is where the famous story is mentioned (Allahu A3lam whether it is authentic or not, but I'll mention it since most biographies do).


[One day Umar (RA) was seen crying and then laughing, so one of His companion asked Umar "Ya Emir Muminin, why are you crying and laughing?".
Umar (RA) replied, "I remember during the day of Jahiliya I went traveling and I forgot to take my God with me (Arabs used to carry portable idols )"....thus He, Umar (RA) tells us this famous story.

Umar (RA) wanted to do some Ibadah, and since he didn't have his portable god with him, he molded a god out of dates. After making sujood to his god, Umar (RA) became hungry and so he ate his god. *:SMILY335: ...*

In another moment of Umar (RA)'s life during the days of Jahliya, Umar (RA) dug a grave for his baby daughter. During those days many of the Arabs used to bury their female child.
*You can find a reference to this (burying female child) in the Quran.*
Once the grave was complete Umar (RA) began to place the girl into the grave and she looked at him and wiped the dirt off his beard.
When Umar (RA) remembered this incident, he began to cry.

SubhanAllah, compare the Umar (RA) of Jahiliya and Umar (RA) after Islam. They are worlds apart!
This is why Umar (RA) used to say often "Allah has honored us with Islam, so do not dishonor yourselves by imitating the practices of Jahiliya"]




One day he wanted to worship his idol, but it was far from his home and it was cold outside, so instead of going outside, he built an idol made out of dates, and continued worshiping it until he got hungry, so he ate it. And he felt bad, so he made another one and ate that too. Many years later during the reign of Omar ® as Khalifah, he was approached by a boy who asked him: "Oh Amir Al-Muimeen, did you really do this and worship idols?! Did you not have minds?" Omar replied: "My boy... we did indeed had minds, but we had no guidance." Knowledge/intellect without guidance is nothing...

He was born 13 years after the Year of the Elephant, so he is 13 years younger than Rasuallah :saw:, and when Rasuallah :saw: became Prophet, Omar was 27 years old. He accepted Islam 6 years after the Prophethood of Rasuallah :saw:, so he would have been 32/33 years old.

He became Khalipha at the age of 52 and reigned for 10 years 6 months and 4 days, and died at the age of 62. He was buried at the shoulder of Abu Bakr ®. So Sayidiana Omar ® became a Muslim at the age of 27 and was still able to achieve so much, so for the people who thing "Oh it's too late for me to start becoming religious"...it is never too late.


His father- Al-Khattab, was not well known, nor well respected and died without anyone really noticing. It is also said that his father was rough and heavy-hearted and this was the reason why he wasn't really liked.
His mother- Hentinah bint Hashim. She was a very close relative- perhaps a neice-to Amr ibn Hisham (Abu Jahl), so Abu Jahl is considered to be the uncle of Omar ibn Al-Khattab. She is from the tribe of Bani Makzoom, and her cousin is Waleed ibn Al-Mughria- the father of Khaled ibn Al-Waleed. Therefore Omar and Khaled were 2nd cousins.

He married many women during Al-Jahiliya and even in Islam, and had many children. The most famous of these children is Abdullah ibn Omar ibn Al-Khattab ®, the one whom imitated Rasuallah :saw: the most in every single aspect of life. And from his children is Hafsa ®, the wife of Rasuallah :saw:, also from his children are Fatima, and Asim. But the most peculiar thing is that he had 3 boys, and named them all Abdul Rahman, from different wives yes. He named one Abdul Rahman the elder, the other Abdul Rahman the middle, and the last Abdul Rahman the younger. Why? He says: "I heard Rasuallah :saw: The most loved names to Allah are the names Abdullah and Abdul Rahman." So for his love to Allah, he named 3 different children from different wives Abdul Rahman.

He was married to 3 women during Al-Jahiliya, when he accepted Islam and as soon as the ayah:

"...Likewise hold not the disbelieving women as wives..." (Surat Al-Mumtahina, verse 10)

was revealed he divorced all of them on that night, due to his taking of the Qur'an into every single aspect of his life. And Insha'Allah throughout this thread, we'll be discussing the great speed with which Omar ibn Al-Khattab fulfilled the commandments of Allah. We've already come across two. (Naming of the sons, and divorcing the wives).

The most strangest of marriages he had, was after he became Khalifah- so after the age of 52. He married Ummu Kulthoom bint Ali ibn Abi-Talib ®. Why did he marry her? She is the granddaughter of :saw:, her father is Ali ibn Abi-Talib ®, her mother is Fatima Az-Zahra ® (daughter of Muhammad :saw:) and she was the sister of Al-Hassan Wal-Husseiyn (® both).
Omar ibn Al-Khattab ® sent to Ali ® saying: "Marry me to Ummu Kulthoom." Ali replied: "Oh Amir Al-Muimeen, she is too young for you." Omar responded: "Marry me to her, for I swear no one knows how extraordinary she is except me, and no one will be able to honour her like Omar (me)" Ali ibn Abi-Talib ® said: "I will send her for you to see, if you like her you may marry her." Omar saw her and repeated: "Marry me to her oh Ali!" And he married her, then walked out to the Muslims and said: "You are all saying he married a young girl correct? I swear I married her because of what I heard Rasuallah :saw:: "On the Judgment Day every means (friendship), every lineage and every in-law severed except my means, my lineage and my in-laws." And I've already got two of these, I have the means, as I was a friend to Rasuallah :saw:, and I have the in-law, my daughter Hafsa was married to Rasuallah :saw:, I wished for the 3rd- which is the lineage of Rasuallah, so that my means, and my in-law, and my lineage is elevated with Rasuallah :saw: on the Day of Judgment."
See how this man thinks? Radia' Allahu Anhu... "


We'll continue on next time Insha'Allah.




P.S. I will include quotes of Umar (RA) , statements of Sahabas (may Allah be pleased with them all) about Umar, and statements of scholars about Umar, after every post.



The Prophet :saw: said:

"There was never a prophet but he had two Ministers from the dwellers in heaven and two Ministers from among the dwellers on earth. My two Ministers of the dwellers of heaven are Gabriel and Michael, and of the earth Abu Bakr and Umar'."

Abu Bakr (RA) said about Umar (RA), "There is not upon the face of the earth a man dearer to me then Umar." When Abu Bakr was on his death bed, it was said to him, "What will you say to God, now that you have appointed Umar (RA) as your successor?" Abu Bakr (RA) said, "I will say to Him that I appointed over His people the man who was the best among them all."


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AlQurtubi

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I am going to write about siddique-e-Akbar, Abu bakr Siddique (RA) inshALLAH. Give me a week's time. I cant do it earlier because i m going through ups n downs these days.

I heard that I have to provide it in parts? is that so?
 

xSharingan01x

TraVeLer
I am going to write about siddique-e-Akbar, Abu bakr Siddique (RA) inshALLAH. Give me a week's time. I cant do it earlier because i m going through ups n downs these days.

I heard that I have to provide it in parts? is that so?
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NO
I would recommend that you provide in parts, so it's not too lengthy at once and it will be easier for people to read.
I suggest you ask brother helpinghumanity what he prefers.

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AlQurtubi

Banned
brother sharingan, you should be given TTI medal of honour for your termendous support ;)

I will talk with brother zahid about this. I dont know how the flow will be mainted if i will post if in different parts? I would rather send it to u for reveiew ;)
 

a_muslimah86

Hubbi Li Rabbi
Staff member
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Brother Zahid...I apologize for my lack of help the last few days...I had problems with my keyboard (I could only use the mouse and could browse the net through bookmarks that's it! :S)...so I had to get it fixed (again!..it's a looong story..*sigh*)

anyway..I am back..and inshallah I will help with the schedule you had put up..it seems that brother sharingan has found information on Sayidina Omar (ra)...and I found material on Sayidatina Ai'isha (ra)..which I will post in a bit..and I will look for the rest of the people and post them here as well

If you are ready...perhaps you can put up the schedule for the 2nd week so other people and I can look up the information for you! :)

The post after this one..is about Sayidatina Ai'isha (ra)

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a_muslimah86

Hubbi Li Rabbi
Staff member
I liked this summary...it is put in a way..that is again..like that of a story..so it will be a smooth read for you and your siblings..and it focuses on the things you would want to share to get your point across (of why you want to *teach* about Sayidatina Ai'isha!)..I liked it a lot..inshallah you will too




The life of Aishah is proof that a woman can be far more learned than men and that she can be the teacher of scholars and experts. Her life is also proof that a woman can exert influence over men and women and provide them with inspiration and leadership. Her life is also proof that the same woman can be totally feminine and be a source of pleasure, joy and comfort to her husband.

She did not graduate from any university there were no universities as such in her day. But still her utterances are studied in faculties of literature, her legal pronouncements are studied in colleges of law and her life and works are studied and researched by students and teachers of Muslim history as they have been for over a thousand years.

The bulk of her vast treasure of knowledge was obtained while she was still quite young. In her early childhood she was brought up by her father who was greatly liked and respected for he was a man of wide knowledge, gentle manners and an agreeable presence. Moreover he was the closest friend of the noble Prophet who was a frequent visitor to their home since the very early days of his mission.

In her youth, already known for her striking beauty and her formidable memory, she came under the loving care and attention of the Prophet himself. As his wife and close companion she acquired from him knowledge and insight such as no woman has ever acquired.

Aishah became the Prophet's wife in Makkah when she was most likely in the tenth year of her life but her wedding did not take place until the second year after the Hijrah when she was about fourteen or fifteen years old. Before and after her wedding she maintained a natural jollity and innocence and did not seem at all overawed by the thought of being wedded to him who was the Messenger of God whom all his companions, including her own mother and father, treated with such love and reverence as they gave to no one else.

About her wedding, she related that shortly before she was to leave her parent's house, she slipped out into the courtyard to play with a passing friend:
"I was playing on a see-saw and my long streaming hair was dishevelled," she said. "They came and took me from my play and made me ready."
They dressed her in a wedding-dress made from fine red-striped cloth from Bahrain and then her mother took her to the newly-built house where some women of the Ansar were waiting outside the door. They greeted her with the words "For good and for happiness may all be well!" Then, in the presence of the smiling Prophet, a bowl of milk was brought. The Prophet drank from it himself and offered it to Aishah. She shyly declined it but when he insisted she did so and then offered the bowl to her sister Asma who was sitting beside her. Others also drank of it and that was as much as there was of the simple and solemn occasion of their wedding. There was no wedding feast.

Marriage to the Prophet did not change her playful ways. Her young friends came regularly to visit her in her own apartment.

"I would be playing with my dolls," she said, "with the girls who were my friends, and the Prophet would come in and they would slip out of the house and he would go out after them and bring them back, for he was pleased for my sake to have them there." Sometimes he would say "Stay where you are" before they had time to leave, and would also join in their games. Aishah said: "One day, the Prophet came in when I was playing with the dolls and he said: 'O Aishah, whatever game is this?' 'It is Solomon's horses,' I said and he laughed." Sometimes as he came in he would screen himself with his cloak so as not to disturb Aishah and her friends.

Aishah's early life in Madinah also had its more serious and anxious times. Once her father and two companions who were staying with him fell ill with a dangerous fever which was common in Madinah at certain seasons. One morning Aishah went to visit him and was dismayed to find the three men lying completely weak and exhausted. She asked her father how he was and he answered her in verse but she did not understand what he was saying. The two others also answered her with lines of poetry which seemed to her to be nothing but unintelligible babbling. She was deeply troubled and went home to the Prophet saying:

"They are raving, out of their minds, through the heat of the fever." The Prophet asked what they had said and was somewhat reassured when she repeated almost word for word the lines they had uttered and which made sense although she did not fully understand them then. This was a demonstration of the great retentive power of her memory which as the years went by were to preserve so many of the priceless sayings of the Prophet.

Of the Prophet's wives in Madinah, it was clear that it was Aishah that he loved most. From time to time, one or the other of his companions would ask:
"O Messenger of God, whom do you love most in the world?" He did not always give the same answer to this question for he felt great love for many for his daughters and their children, for Abu Bakr, for Ali, for Zayd and his son Usamah. But of his wives the only one he named in this connection was Aishah. She too loved him greatly in return and often would seek reassurance from him that he loved her. Once she asked him: "How is your love for me?"

"Like the rope's knot," he replied meaning that it was strong and secure. And time after time thereafter, she would ask him: "How is the knot?" and he would reply: "Ala haaliha in the same condition."

As she loved the Prophet so was her love a jealous love and she could not bear the thought that the Prophet's attentions should be given to others more than seemed enough to her. She asked him:

"O Messenger of God, tell me of yourself. If you were between the two slopes of a valley, one of which had not been grazed whereas the other had been grazed, on which would you pasture your flocks?"

"On that which had not been grazed," replied the Prophet. "Even so," she said, "and I am not as any other of your wives. "Everyone of them had a husband before you, except myself." The Prophet smiled and said nothing. Of her jealousy, Aishah would say in later years:

"I was not, jealous of any other wife of the Prophet as I was jealous of Khadijah, because of his constant mentioning of her and because God had commanded him to give her good tidings of a mansion in Paradise of precious stones. And whenever he sacrificed a sheep he would send a fair portion of it to those who had been her intimate friends. Many a time I said to him: "It is as if there had never been any other woman in the world except Khadijah."

Once, when Aishah complained and asked why he spoke so highly of "an old Quraysh woman", the Prophet was hurt and said: "She was the wife who believed in me when others rejected me. When people gave me the lie, she affirmed my truthfulness. When I stood forsaken, she spent her wealth to lighten the burden of my sorrow.."

Despite her feelings of jealousy which nonetheless were not of a destructive kind, Aishah was really a generous soul and a patient one. She bore with the rest of the Prophet's household poverty and hunger which often lasted for long periods. For days on end no fire would be lit in the sparsely furnished house of the Prophet for cooking or baking bread and they would live merely on dates and water. Poverty did not cause her distress or humiliation; self-sufficiency when it did come did not corrupt her style of life.

Once the Prophet stayed away from his wives for a month because they had distressed him by asking of him that which he did not have. This was after the Khaybar expedition when an increase of riches whetted the appetite for presents. Returning from his self-imposed retreat, he went first to Aishah's apartment. She was delighted to see him but he said he had received Revelation which required him to put two options before her. He then recited the verses:

"O Prophet! Say to your wives: If you desire the life of this world and its adornments, then come and I will bestow its goods upon you, and I will release you with a fair release. But if you desire God and His Messenger and the abode of the Hereafter, then verily God has laid in store for you an immense reward for such as you who do good."

Aishah's reply was:
"Indeed I desire God and His Messenger and the abode of the Hereafter," and her response was followed by all the others.

She stuck to her choice both during the lifetime of the Prophet and afterwards. Later when the Muslims were favored with enormous riches, she was given a gift of one hundred thousand dirhams. She was fasting when she received the money and she distributed the entire amount to the poor and the needy even though she had no provisions in her house. Shortly after, a maidservant said to her: "Could you buy meat for a dirham with which to break your fast?"

"If I had remembered, I would have done so," she said. The Prophet's affection for Aishah remained to the last. During his final illness, it was to Aishah's apartment that he went at the suggestion of his wives. For much of the time he lay there on a couch with his head resting on her breast or on her lap. She it was who took a toothstick from her brother, chewed upon it to soften it and gave it to the Prophet. Despite his weakness, he rubbed his teeth with it vigorously. Not long afterwards, he lost consciousness and Aishah thought it was the onset of death, but after an hour he opened his eyes.

Aishah it is who has preserved for us these dying moments of the most honoured of God's creation, His beloved Messenger may He shower His choicest blessings on him.

When he opened his eyes again, Aishah remembered Iris having said to her: "No Prophet is taken by death until he has been shown his place in Paradise and then offered the choice, to live or die."

"He will not now choose us," she said to herself. Then she heard him murmur: "With the supreme communion in Paradise, with those upon whom God has showered His favor, the Prophets, the martyrs and the righteous..." Again she heard him murmur: "O Lord, with the supreme communion," and these were the last words she heard him speak. Gradually his head grew heavier upon her breast, until others in the room began to lament, and Aishah laid his head on a pillow and joined them in lamentation.
In the floor of Aishah's room near the couch where he was lying, a grave was dug in which was buried the Seal of the Prophets amid much bewilderment and great sorrow.

Aishah lived on almost fifty years after the passing away of the Prophet. She had been his wife for a decade. Much of this time was spent in learning and acquiring knowledge of the two most important sources of God's guidance, the Quran and the Sunnah of His Prophet. Aishah was one of three wives (the other two being Hafsah and Umm Salamah) who memorized the Revelation. Like Hafsah, she had her own script of the Quran written after the Prophet had died.

So far as the Ahadith or sayings of the Prophet is concerned, Aishah is one of four persons (the others being Abu Hurayrah, Abdullah ibn Umar, and Anas ibn Malik) who transmitted more than two thousand sayings. Many of these pertain to some of the most intimate aspects of personal behavior which only someone in Aishah's position could have learnt. What is most important is that her knowledge of hadith was passed on in written form by at least three persons including her nephew Urwah who became one of the greatest scholars among the generation after the Companions.
Many of the learned companions of the Prophet and their followers benefitted from Aishah's knowledge. Abu Musa al-Ashari once said: "If we companions of the Messenger of God had any difficulty on a matter, we asked Aishah about it."

Her nephew Urwah asserts that she was proficient not only in fiqh but also in medicine (tibb) and poetry. Many of the senior companions of the Prophet came to her to ask for advice concerning questions of inheritance which required a highly skilled mathematical mind. Scholars regard her as one of the earliest fuqaha of Islam along with persons like Umar ibn al-Khattab, Ali and Abdullah ibn Abbas. The Prophet referring to her extensive knowledge of Islam is reported to have said: "Learn a portion of your religion (din) from this red colored lady." "Humayra" meaning "Red-coloured" was an epithet given to Aishah by the Prophet.

Aishah not only possessed great knowledge but took an active part in education and social reform. As a teacher she had a clear and persuasive manner of speech and her power of oratory has been described in superlative terms by al-Ahnaf who said: "I have heard speeches of Abu Bakr and Umar, Uthman and Ali and the Khulafa up to this day, but I have not heard speech more persuasive and more beautiful from the mouth of any person than from the mouth of Aishah."

Men and women came from far and wide to benefit from her knowledge. The number of women is said to have been greater than that of men. Besides answering enquiries, she took boys and girls, some of them orphans, into her custody and trained them under her care and guidance. This was in addition to her relatives who received instruction from her. Her house thus became a school and an academy.

Some of her students were outstanding. We have already mentioned her nephew Urwah as a distinguished reporter of hadith. Among her women pupils is the name of Umrah bint Abdur Rahman. She is regarded by scholars as one of the trustworthy narrators of hadith and is said to have acted as Aishah's secretary receiving and replying to letters addressed to her. The example of Aishah in promoting education and in particular the education of Muslim women in the laws and teachings of Islam is one which needs to be followed.

After Khadijah al-Kubra (the Great) and Fatimah az-Zahra (the Resplendent), Aishah as-Siddiqah (the one who affirms the Truth) is regarded as the best woman in Islam. Because of the strength of her personality, she was a leader in every field in knowledge, in society, in politics and in war. She often regretted her involvement in war but lived long enough to regain position as the most respected woman of her time. She died in the year 58 AH in the month of Ramadan and as she instructed, was buried in the Jannat al-Baqi in the City of Light, beside other companions of the Prophet.
 

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Here is a summary (similar to the one I posted a bit ago) for the life of Sayidatina Fatimah Azzahra'a (ra)...


Fatimah bint Muhammad

Fatimah was the fifth child of Muhammad and Khadijah. She was born at a time when her noble father had begun to spend long periods in the solitude of mountains around Makkah, meditating and reflecting on the great mysteries of creation.
This was the time, before the Bithah, when her eldest sister Zaynab was married to her cousin, al-Aas ibn ar Rabiah. Then followed the marriage of her two other sisters, Ruqayyah and Umm Kulthum, to the sons of Abu Lahab, a paternal uncle of the Prophet. Both Abu Lahab and his wife Umm Jamil turned out to be flaming enemies of the Prophet from the very beginning of his public mission.
The little Fatimah thus saw her sisters leave home one after the other to live with their husbands. She was too young to understand the meaning of marriage and the reasons why her sisters had to leave home. She loved them dearly and was sad and lonely when they left. It is said that a certain silence and painful sadness came over her then.
Of course, even after the marriage of her sisters, she was not alone in the house of her parents. Barakah, the maid-servant of Aminah, the Prophet's mother, who had been with the Prophet since his birth, Zayd ibn Harithah, and Ali, the young son of Abu Talib were all part of Muhammad's household at this time. And of course there was her loving mother, the lady Khadijah.
In her mother and in Barakah, Fatimah found a great deal of solace and comfort in Ali, who was about two years older than she, she found a "brother" and a friend who somehow took the place of her own brother al-Qasim who had died in his infancy. Her other brother Abdullah, known as the Good and the Pure, who was born after her, also died in his infancy. However in none of the people in her father's household did Fatimah find the carefree joy and happiness which she enjoyed with her sisters. She was an unusually sensitive child for her age.
When she was five, she heard that her father had become Rasul Allah, the Messenger of God. His first task was to convey the good news of Islam to his family and close relations. They were to worship God Almighty alone. Her mother, who was a tower of strength and support, explained to Fatimah what her father had to do. From this time on, she became more closely attached to him and felt a deep and abiding love for him. Often she would be at Iris side walking through the narrow streets and alleys of Makkah, visiting the Kabah or attending secret gatherings off, the early Muslims who had accepted Islam and pledged allegiance to the Prophet.
One day, when she was not yet ten, she accompanied her father to the Masjid al-Haram. He stood in the place known as al-Hijr facing the Kabah and began to pray. Fatimah stood at his side. A group of Quraysh, by no means well-disposed to the Prophet, gathered about him. They included Abu Jahl ibn Hisham, the Prophet's uncle, Uqbah ibn Abi Muayt, Umayyah ibn Khalaf, and Shaybah and Utbah, sons of Rabi'ah. Menacingly, the group went up to the Prophet and Abu Jahl, the ringleader, asked:
"Which of you can bring the entrails of a slaughtered animal and throw it on Muhammad?"
Uqbah ibn Abi Muayt, one of the vilest of the lot, volunteered and hurried off. He returned with the obnoxious filth and threw it on the shoulders of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, while he was still prostrating. Abdullah ibn Masud, a companion of the Prophet, was present but he was powerless to do or say anything.
Imagine the feelings of Fatimah as she saw her father being treated in this fashion. What could she, a girl not ten years old, do? She went up to her father and removed the offensive matter and then stood firmly and angrily before the group of Quraysh thugs and lashed out against them. Not a single word did they say to her. The noble Prophet raised his head on completion of the prostration and went on to complete the Salat. He then said: "O Lord, may you punish the Quraysh!" and repeated this imprecation three times. Then he continued:
"May You punish Utbah, Uqbah, Abu Jahl and Shaybah." (These whom he named were all killed many years later at the Battle of Badr)
On another occasion, Fatimah was with the Prophet as he made; tawaf around the Kabah. A Quraysh mob gathered around him. They seized him and tried to strangle him with his own clothes. Fatimah screamed and shouted for help. Abu Bakr rushed to the scene and managed to free the Prophet. While he was doing so, he pleaded: "Would you kill a man who says, 'My Lord is God?'" Far from giving up, the mob turned on Abu Bakr and began beating him until blood flowed from his head and face.
Such scenes of vicious opposition and harassment against her father and the early Muslims were witnessed by the young Fatimah. She did not meekly stand aside but joined in the struggle in defence of her father and his noble mission. She was still a young girl and instead of the cheerful romping, the gaiety and liveliness which children of her age are and should normally be accustomed to, Fatimah had to witness and participate in such ordeals.
Of course, she was not alone in this. The whole of the Prophet's family suffered from the violent and mindless Quraysh. Her sisters, Ruqayyah and Umm Kulthum also suffered. They were living at this time in the very nest of hatred and intrigue against the Prophet. Their husbands were Utbah and Utaybah, sons of Abu Lahab and Umm Jamil. Umm Jamil was known to be a hard and harsh woman who had a sharp and evil tongue. It was mainly because of her that Khadijah was not pleased with the marriages of her daughters to Umm Jamil's sons in the first place. It must have been painful for Ruqayyah and Umm Kulthum to be living in the household of such inveterate enemies who not only joined but led the campaign against their father.
As a mark of disgrace to Muhammad and his family, Utbah and Utaybah were prevailed upon by their parents to divorce their wives. This was part of the process of ostracizing the Prophet totally. The Prophet in fact welcomed his daughters back to his home with joy, happiness and relief.
Fatimah, no doubt, must have been happy to be with her sisters once again. They all wished that their eldest sister, Zaynab, would also be divorced by her husband. In fact, the Quraysh brought pressure on Abu-l Aas to do so but he refused. When the Quraysh leaders came up to him and promised him the richest and most beautiful woman as a wife should he divorce Zaynab, he replied:
"I love my wife deeply and passionately and I have a great and high esteem for her father even though I have not entered the religion of Islam."
Both Ruqayyah and Umm Kulthum were happy to be back with their loving parents and to be rid of the unbearable mental torture to which they had been subjected in the house of Umm Jamil. Shortly afterwards, Ruqayyah married again, to the young and shy Uthman ibn Allan who was among the first to have accepted Islam. They both left for Abyssinia among the first muhajirin who sought refuge in that land and stayed there for several years. Fatimah was not to see Ruqayyah again until after their mother had died.
The persecution of the Prophet, his family and his followers continued and even became worse after the migration of the first Muslims to Abyssinia. In about the seventh year of his mission, the Prophet and his family were forced to leave their homes and seek refuge in a rugged little valley enclosed by hills on all sides and defile, which could only be entered from Makkah by a narrow path.
To this arid valley, Muhammad and the clans of Banu Hashim and al-Muttalib were forced to retire with limited supplies of food. Fatimah was one of the youngest members of the clans -just about twelve years old - and had to undergo months of hardship and suffering. The wailing of hungry children and women in the valley could be heard from Makkah. The Quraysh allowed no food and contact with the Muslims whose hardship was only relieved somewhat during the season of pilgrimage. The boycott lasted for three years. When it was lifted, the Prophet had to face even more trials and difficulties. Khadijah, the faithful and loving, died shortly afterwards. With her death, the Prophet and his family lost one of the greatest sources of comfort and strength which had sustained them through the difficult period. The year in which the noble Khadijah, and later Abu Talib, died is known as the Year of Sadness. Fatimah, now a young lady, was greatly distressed by her mother's death. She wept bitterly and for some time was so grief-striken that her health deteriorated. It was even feared she might die of grief.
Although her older sister, Umm Kulthum, stayed in the same household, Fatimah realized that she now had a greater responsibility with the passing away of her mother. She felt that she had to give even greater support to her father. With loving tenderness, she devoted herself to looking after his needs. So concerned was she for his welfare that she came to be called "Umm Abi-ha the mother of her father". She also provided him with solace and comfort during times of trial, difficulty and crisis.
Often the trials were too much for her. Once, about this time, an insolent mob heaped dust and earth upon his gracious head. As he entered his home, Fatimah wept profusely as she wiped the dust from her father's head.
"Do not cry, my daughter," he said, "for God shall protect your father." The Prophet had a special love for Fatimah. He once said: "Whoever pleased Fatimah has indeed pleased God and whoever has caused her to be angry has indeed angered God. Fatimah is a part of me. Whatever pleases her pleases me and whatever angers her angers me."
He also said: "The best women in all the world are four: the Virgin Mary, Aasiyaa the wife of Pharoah, Khadijah Mother of the Believers, and Fatimah, daughter of Muhammad." Fatimah thus acquired a place of love and esteem in the Prophet's heart that was only occupied by his wife Khadijah.
Fatimah, may God be pleased with her, was given the title of "az-Zahraa" which means "the Resplendent One". That was because of her beaming face which seemed to radiate light. It is said that when she stood for Prayer, the mihrab would reflect the light of her countenance. She was also called "al-Batul" because of her asceticism. Instead of spending her time in the company of women, much of her time would be spent in Salat, in reading the Quran and in other acts of ibadah.
Fatimah had a strong resemblance to her father, the Messenger of God. Aishah, the wife of the Prophet, said of her: "I have not seen any one of God's creation resemble the Messenger of God more in speech, conversation and manner of sitting than Fatimah, may God be pleased with her. When the Prophet saw her approaching, he would welcome her, stand up and kiss her, take her by the hand and sit her down in the place where he was sitting." She would do the same when the Prophet came to her. She would stand up and welcome him with joy and kiss him.
Fatimah's fine manners and gentle speech were part of her lovely and endearing personality. She was especially kind to poor and indigent folk and would often give all the food she had to those in need even if she herself remained hungry. She had no craving for the ornaments of this world nor the luxury and comforts of life. She lived simply, although on occasion as we shall see circumstances seemed to be too much and too difficult for her.
She inherited from her father a persuasive eloquence that was rooted in wisdom. When she spoke, people would often be moved to tears. She had the ability and the sincerity to stir the emotions, move people to tears and fill their hearts with praise and gratitude to God for His grace and His inestimable bounties.
Fatimah migrated to Madinah a few weeks after the Prophet did. She went with Zayd ibn Harithah who was sent by the Prophet back to Makkah to bring the rest of his family. The party included Fatimah and Umm Kulthum, Sawdah, the Prophet's wife, Zayd's wife Barakah and her son Usamah. Travelling with the group also were Abdullah the son of Abu Bakr who accompanied his mother and his sisters, Aishah and Asma.
In Madinah, Fatimah lived with her father in the simple dwelling he had built adjoining the mosque. In the second year after the Hijrah, she received proposals of marriage through her father, two of which were turned down. Then Ali, the son of Abu Talib, plucked up courage and went to the Prophet to ask for her hand in marriage. In the presence of the Prophet, however, Ali became over-awed and tongue-tied. He stared at the ground and could not say anything. The Prophet then asked: "Why have you come? Do you need something?" Ali still could not speak and then the Prophet suggested: "Perhaps you have come to propose marriage to Fatimah."
"Yes," replied Ali. At this, according to one report, the Prophet said simply: "Marhaban wa ahlan - Welcome into the family," and this was taken by Ali and a group of Ansar who were waiting outside for him as indicating the Prophet's approval. Another report indicated that the Prophet approved and went on to ask Ali if he had anything to give as mahr. Ali replied that he didn't. The Prophet reminded him that he had a shield which could be sold.
Ali sold the shield to Uthman for four hundred dirhams and as he was hurrying back to the Prophet to hand over the sum as mahr, Uthman stopped him and said:
"I am returning your shield to you as a present from me on your marriage to Fatimah." Fatimah and Ali were thus married most probably at the beginning of the second year after the Hijrah. She was about nineteen years old at the time and Ali was about twenty one. The Prophet himself performed the marriage ceremony. At the walimah, the guests were served with dates, figs and hais ( a mixture of dates and butter fat). A leading member of the Ansar donated a ram and others made offerings of grain. All Madinah rejoiced.
On her marriage, the Prophet is said to have presented Fatimah and Ali with a wooden bed intertwined with palm leaves, a velvet coverlet, a leather cushion filled with palm fibre, a sheepskin, a pot, a waterskin and a quern for grinding grain.
Fatimah left the home of her beloved father for the first time to begin life with her husband. The Prophet was clearly anxious on her account and sent Barakah with her should she be in need of any help. And no doubt Barakah was a source of comfort and solace to her. The Prophet prayed for them:
"O Lord, bless them both, bless their house and bless their offspring." In Ali's humble dwelling, there was only a sheepskin for a bed. In the morning after the wedding night, the Prophet went to Ali's house and knocked on the door.
Barakah came out and the Prophet said to her: "O Umm Ayman, call my brother for me."
"Your brother? That's the one who married your daughter?" asked Barakah somewhat incredulously as if to say: Why should the Prophet call Ali his "brother"? (He referred to Ali as his brother because just as pairs of Muslims were joined in brotherhood after the Hijrah, so the Prophet and Ali were linked as "brothers".)
The Prophet repeated what he had said in a louder voice. Ali came and the Prophet made a du'a, invoking the blessings of God on him. Then he asked for Fatimah. She came almost cringing with a mixture of awe and shyness and the Prophet said to her:
"I have married you to the dearest of my family to me." In this way, he sought to reassure her. She was not starting life with a complete stranger but with one who had grown up in the same household, who was among the first to become a Muslim at a tender age, who was known for his courage, bravery and virtue, and whom the Prophet described as his "brother in this world and the hereafter".
Fatimah's life with Ali was as simple and frugal as it was in her father's household. In fact, so far as material comforts were concerned, it was a life of hardship and deprivation. Throughout their life together, Ali remained poor because he did not set great store by material wealth. Fatimah was the only one of her sisters who was not married to a wealthy man.
In fact, it could be said that Fatimah's life with Ali was even more rigorous than life in her father's home. At least before marriage, there were always a number of ready helping hands in the Prophet's household. But now she had to cope virtually on her own. To relieve their extreme poverty, Ali worked as a drawer and carrier of water and she as a grinder of corn. One day she said to Ali: "I have ground until my hands are blistered."
"I have drawn water until I have pains in my chest," said Ali and went on to suggest to Fatimah: "God has given your father some captives of war, so go and ask him to give you a servant."
Reluctantly, she went to the Prophet who said: "What has brought you here, my little daughter?" "I came to give you greetings of peace," she said, for in awe of him she could not bring herself to ask what she had intended.
"What did you do?" asked Ali when she returned alone.
"I was ashamed to ask him," she said. So the two of them went together but the Prophet felt they were less in need than others.
"I will not give to you," he said, "and let the Ahl as-Suffah (poor Muslims who stayed in the mosque) be tormented with hunger. I have not enough for their keep..."
Ali and Fatimah returned home feeling somewhat dejected but that night, after they had gone to bed, they heard the voice of the Prophet asking permission to enter. Welcoming him, they both rose to their feet, but he told them:
"Stay where you are," and sat down beside them. "Shall I not tell you of something better than that which you asked of me?" he asked and when they said yes he said: "Words which Jibril taught me, that you should say "Subhaan Allah- Glory be to God" ten times after every Prayer, and ten times "AI hamdu lillah - Praise be to God," and ten times "Allahu Akbar - God is Great." And that when you go to bed you should say them thirty-three times each."
Ali used to say in later years: "I have never once failed to say them since the Messenger of God taught them to us."
There are many reports of the hard and difficult times which Fatimah had to face. Often there was no food in her house. Once the Prophet was hungry. He went to one after another of his wives' apartments but there was no food. He then went to Fatimah's house and she had no food either. When he eventually got some food, he sent two loaves and a piece of meat to Fatimah. At another time, he went to the house of Abu Ayyub al-Ansari and from the food he was given, he saved some for her. Fatimah also knew that the Prophet was without food for long periods and she in turn would take food to him when she could. Once she took a piece of barley bread and he, said to her: "This is the first food your father has eaten for three days."
Through these acts of kindness she showed how much she loved her father; and he loved her, really loved her in return.
Once he returned from a journey outside Madinah. He went to the mosque first of all and prayed two rakats as was his custom. Then, as he often did, he went to Fatimah's house before going to his wives. Fatimah welcomed him and kissed his face, his mouth and his eyes and cried. "Why do you cry?" the Prophet asked. "I see you, O Rasul Allah," she said, "Your color is pale and sallow and your clothes have become worn and shabby." "O Fatimah," the Prophet replied tenderly, "don't cry for Allah has sent your father with a mission which He would cause to affect every house on the face of the earth whether it be in towns, villages or tents (in the desert) bringing either glory or humiliation until this mission is fulfilled just as night (inevitably) comes." With such comments Fatimah was often taken from the harsh realities of daily life to get a glimpse of the vast and far-reaching vistas opened up by the mission entrusted to her noble father.
Fatimah eventually returned to live in a house close to that of the Prophet. The place was donated by an Ansari who knew that the Prophet would rejoice in having his daughter as his neighbor. Together they shared in the joys and the triumphs, the sorrows and the hardships of the crowded and momentous Madinah days and years.
In the middle of the second year after the Hijrah, her sister Ruqayyah fell ill with fever and measles. This was shortly before the great campaign of Badr. Uthman, her husband, stayed by her bedside and missed the campaign. Ruqayyah died just before her father returned. On his return to Madinah, one of the first acts of the Prophet was to visit her grave.
Fatimah went with him. This was the first bereavement they had suffered within their closest family since the death of Khadijah. Fatimah was greatly distressed by the loss of her sister. The tears poured from her eyes as she sat beside her father at the edge of the grave, and he comforted her and sought to dry her tears with the corner of his cloak.
The Prophet had previously spoken against lamentations for the dead, but this had lead to a misunderstanding, and when they returned from the cemetery the voice of Umar was heard raised in anger against the women who were weeping for the martyrs of Badr and for Ruqayyah.
"Umar, let them weep," he said and then added: "What comes from the heart and from the eye, that is from God and His mercy, but what comes from the hand and from the tongue, that is from Satan." By the hand he meant the beating of breasts and the smiting of cheeks, and by the tongue he meant the loud clamor in which women often joined as a mark of public sympathy.
Uthman later married the other daughter of the Prophet, Umm Kulthum, and on this account came to be known as Dhu-n Nurayn - Possessor of the Two Lights.
The bereavement which the family suffered by the death of Ruqayyah was followed by happiness when to the great joy of all the believers Fatimah gave birth to a boy in Ramadan of the third year after the Hijrah. The Prophet spoke the words of the Adhan into the ear of the new-born babe and called him al-Hasan which means the Beautiful One.
One year later, she gave birth to another son who was called al-Husayn, which means "little Hasan" or the little beautiful one. Fatimah would often bring her two sons to see their grandfather who was exceedingly fond of them. Later he would take them to the Mosque and they would climb onto his back when he prostrated. He did the same with his little granddaughter Umamah, the daughter of Zaynab.
In the eighth year after the Hijrah, Fatimah gave birth to a third child, a girl whom she named after her eldest sister Zaynab who had died shortly before her birth. This Zaynab was to grow up and become famous as the "Heroine of Karbala". Fatimah's fourth child was born in the year after the Hijrah. The child was also a girl and Fatimah named her Umm Kulthum after her sister who had died the year before after an illness.
It was only through Fatimah that the progeny of the Prophet was perpetuated. All the Prophet's male children had died in their infancy and the two children of Zaynab named Ali and Umamah died young. Ruqayyah's child Abdullah also died when he was not yet two years old. This is an added reason for the reverence which is accorded to Fatimah.
Although Fatimah was so often busy with pregnancies and giving birth and rearing children, she took as much part as she could in the affairs of the growing Muslim community of Madinah. Before her marriage, she acted as a sort of hostess to the poor and destitute Ahl as-Suffah. As soon as the Battle of Uhud was over, she went with other women to the battlefield and wept over the dead martyrs and took time to dress her father's wounds. At the Battle of the Ditch, she played a major supportive role together with other women in preparing food during the long and difficult siege. In her camp, she led the Muslim women in prayer and on that place there stands a mosque named Masjid Fatimah, one of seven mosques where the Muslims stood guard and performed their devotions.
Fatimah also accompanied the Prophet when he made Umrah in the sixth year after the Hijrah after the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah. In the following year, she and her sister Umm Kulthum, were among the mighty throng of Muslims who took part with the Prophet in the liberation of Makkah. It is said that on this occasion, both Fatimah and Umm Kulthum visited the home of their mother Khadijah and recalled memories of their childhood and memories of jihad, of long struggles in the early years of the Prophet's mission.
In Ramadan of the tenth year just before he went on his Farewell Pilgrimage, the Prophet confided to Fatimah, as a secret not yet to be told to others:
"Jibril recited the Quran to me and I to him once every year, but this year he has recited it with me twice. I cannot but think that my time has come."
On his return from the Farewell Pilgrimage, the Prophet did become seriously ill. His final days were spent in the apartment of his wife Aishah. When Fatimah came to visit him, Aishah would leave father and daughter together.
One day he summoned Fatimah. When she came, he kissed her and whispered some words in her ear. She wept. Then again he whispered in her ear and she smiled. Aishah saw and asked:
"You cry and you laugh at the same time, Fatimah? What did the Messenger of God say to you?" Fatimah replied:
"He first told me that he would meet his Lord after a short while and so I cried. Then he said to me: 'Don't cry for you will be the first of my household to join me.' So I laughed."
Not long afterwards the noble Prophet passed away. Fatimah was grief-striken and she would often be seen weeping profusely. One of the companions noted that he did not see Fatimah, may God be pleased with her, laugh after the death of her father.
One morning, early in the month of Ramadan, just less than five month after her noble father had passed away, Fatimah woke up looking unusually happy and full of mirth. In the afternoon of that day, it is said that she called Salma bint Umays who was looking after her. She asked for some water and had a bath. She then put on new clothes and perfumed herself. She then asked Salma to put her bed in the courtyard of the house. With her face looking to the heavens above, she asked for her husband Ali.
He was taken aback when he saw her lying in the middle of the courtyard and asked her what was wrong. She smiled and said: "I have an appointment today with the Messenger of God."
Ali cried and she tried to console him. She told him to look after their sons al-Hasan and al-Husayn and advised that she should be buried without ceremony. She gazed upwards again, then closed her eyes and surrendered her soul to the Mighty Creator.
She, Fatimah the Resplendent One, was just twenty nine years old.
 
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