nyerekareem
abdur-rahman
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i haven't really been on TTI as much as i usually am. why? i had been really depressed over certain things. earlier tonight things were almost at a head. i came close to doing something that i would never do. i planned on getting drunk, i had planned to drink my blues away. the waswasas were strong. but there was a part of me that wanted to go pray ishaa and taraweeh. it was an internal battle but i just started thinking about the haqq of islam. the fact that drinking or getting drunk wasn't going to solve my problems. what if i had died while being drunk? would i have been ready to meet Allah SWT in that state of being? i remembered that the path to jannah isn't easy. it's an uphill battle that requires our patience. Allah SWT promised us jannah if we obey, so i just needed to be patient. why think about the minute things of this dunya when i can have everything i ever wanted in the jannah? Allah SWT is the provider yet while i was depressed i forgot all about his provision.:astag:
i was so sad about being turned down for marriage, having no friends, having no friends at the masjid etc that i was actually missing my salah, missed a few days of fasting during ramadan. i felt like a fake to even visit TTI because of this. but someting told me to leave the beer alone and go for isha and taraweeh. so i did. alhamdulillah i'm glad that i did. there's a new masjid about 10 minutes from my home, and i decided to try this one out. while i was going to the parking lot, brothers approached my car giving the most sincere salaam ever and they befriended me. i can't believe that i made friends for the first time ever since i've been a muslim all these years. i wanted to cry. i couldn't believe it. so the taraweeh salah was very emotional for me. if i would've drank alcohol i would've never made friends and probably would've felt worse than before. but i thank Allah SWT for guiding me right and i'm glad for such a thing as taraweeh, because if it hadn't been going on, i'd be too drunk to even type all of this. jazakAllah for taking the time out to read this.
nyerekareem
i haven't really been on TTI as much as i usually am. why? i had been really depressed over certain things. earlier tonight things were almost at a head. i came close to doing something that i would never do. i planned on getting drunk, i had planned to drink my blues away. the waswasas were strong. but there was a part of me that wanted to go pray ishaa and taraweeh. it was an internal battle but i just started thinking about the haqq of islam. the fact that drinking or getting drunk wasn't going to solve my problems. what if i had died while being drunk? would i have been ready to meet Allah SWT in that state of being? i remembered that the path to jannah isn't easy. it's an uphill battle that requires our patience. Allah SWT promised us jannah if we obey, so i just needed to be patient. why think about the minute things of this dunya when i can have everything i ever wanted in the jannah? Allah SWT is the provider yet while i was depressed i forgot all about his provision.:astag:
i was so sad about being turned down for marriage, having no friends, having no friends at the masjid etc that i was actually missing my salah, missed a few days of fasting during ramadan. i felt like a fake to even visit TTI because of this. but someting told me to leave the beer alone and go for isha and taraweeh. so i did. alhamdulillah i'm glad that i did. there's a new masjid about 10 minutes from my home, and i decided to try this one out. while i was going to the parking lot, brothers approached my car giving the most sincere salaam ever and they befriended me. i can't believe that i made friends for the first time ever since i've been a muslim all these years. i wanted to cry. i couldn't believe it. so the taraweeh salah was very emotional for me. if i would've drank alcohol i would've never made friends and probably would've felt worse than before. but i thank Allah SWT for guiding me right and i'm glad for such a thing as taraweeh, because if it hadn't been going on, i'd be too drunk to even type all of this. jazakAllah for taking the time out to read this.
nyerekareem