I wish to have new sisters friends, a sister from london

[Delyan]

El salam aleykom,

I am a 25 years old french and moroccan sister who wears el hijab since 3 years. I am married since about 2 years now and I have a simple life el 7amdolilah. I am studying psychology since 3 years..
Well, actually, u may say by reading that " and then ? .." In fact, except my tender husband, my parents, and a few cousines so far away from me, I haven't any friends, anyone to talk to, to have and consider as a real mate.Even though i know somepersons at university, it s the same, and everyday, from many many years, i m suffering from being alone. I am someone very shy and smetimes, i easily loose my confidence but i did try to make friends, and go ahead by meeting other sisters..Here in France, sisters are a little " closed" well it s not easy to come and say " hi im a sister and i need a friend are u ookay to become one of them "..Since a few months, I have decided to move to the uk with my husband whose there now. I m gonna go to him soon inshalah when I ll complete this year. All I hope is to find a sister kind and modest and as simple as i am as honest as i am just to share great moments between sisters as friends do and to break this loneliness that is really affecting me so much
Why have I mentionned converted muslim girls ? simply cause i just watched many videos about girls and women,..who turned in islam and i found there a kind of common point with me : after the 1st step of wearing hijab, many of them feel alone to face their new lives and even mosques, and conferences and many other opportunities are there to help us to break this, it s hard to feel alone and go forward without any friends..
Jazakom Allah kheir we el salam aaleykom dear sisters

[Basicofislam]

Assalamalikum sister. You can count me as a friend :)

[Delyan]

El salam 3aleykom

How are you ...VERY KIND OF YOU but I don't want you to become a friend beacause u d feel pity for me !!

anyway thank you, what s your name ? Where o u come from,, see you sson inshalah

[Umm Aysha]

Wa alaykum salaam

Welcome dear sister to this wonderful site and ongrowing family. May Allah (swt) increase you in emaan..

Sister you are not alone you have us and sounds of it you have a wonderful husband alhamdulillah. Insha-allah you will be with him soon in uk :)

Be strong sis build your confidence, we are all here for you...:hijabi:

ma'salaama

[Abu Sarah]

Wa Alaykum Assalam..

wellcome sister to TTI..enjoy ur stay..

VERY KIND OF YOU but I don't want you to become a friend beacause u d feel pity for me !!

sister / i don't think sister Basicofislam thought like this..she is good sister Alhamduillah..and u u should know here we are one family..

..insha` Allah..u'll find good sister here..

<wasalam>

[miahr14]

welcome to the forum enjoy ur stay

[OmarTheFrench]

Sister welcome in a "Family":D

[Basicofislam]

Assalamalikum sister. I dont make friends that easily. But as a muslim women it is my duty to help another muslim sister. And i did not say it cause i pity you. May Allah guide you always on the right path and help you to make a right choice always.salam

[AishaR]

:salam2:

Welcome to the site & the family sister. Feel free to PM if you wish, I live in London & am a revert.

Inshallah you & your family are in good health.

:wasalam:

[ray.of.light]

Salaam Sisters

I know a friend of a friend embraced islam a couple of months ago. She is probably 17 or 18, lives in uxbridge. I'll try to get a contact number. All i know is that she changed her name to Aisha...

May Allah guide us all.

AH

[zarah]

:bismillah1:

:salam2:

Welcome to the website! Yep you can count me as your friend sister!:muslim_child:

:wasalam:

[azlina_sam]

Assalamualaikum Sis,

My dear sis, try to like people. Love everybody. Above all that means to welcome every person you meet on your way through life. That means opening your heart, your house, your possesions in such a way that the other person is never made to feel inferior, but can accept your kindness
as part of the way you are being a Muslim..

Nothing can be forced. Everything should be spontaneous. Hospitality is not something that is learned. You won't even find it in a book. It is a deep inward attitude of openness and communicativeness. It belongs to the mystery of being a real person.

Insya-Allah, you'll get to have more friends; quality friends I advice you dear sis.. "I believe in quality friends rather than quantity friends.. In the past, I used to be a very timid, quiet girl. Ever since becoming a nurse, I've changed.. Now a brave, optimitic person & also friendly.. Ever ready to face daily ups & down of life.. We're living in a world full of test from Allah..

I live in Singapore, a multi-racial society.. Being a Malay, I do have many Chinese & Indian friends.. Some of them are even Muslims.. :) Keep in touch sis..

:muslim_child:

Wassalam
Azlina Sam
Singapore

[Aalima Ayesha]

:salam2:

YOU CAN COUNT ME IN AS A FRIEND.
:hearts:

[Aapa]

Salam,

Welcome daughter. This is a beautiful family. You really are fortunate. Why. When a person has time to be alone they reflect and are able to discard that which is not important. There will come times in your life where you wish you could be alone. I love this family. You are now with people who will drop everything they are doing to let you know they are with you. Allow the sincere Love for Allah this family has to enter your heart... I believe you will find so much companionship..intellect..and fun..here . Forgive me for being longwinded...welcome Inshalla, all will be well.

[raihana]

salam
I also want sisters like u who are very religious ,serious
I have lots of friends but mingling with them it weak my eeman,the sad point is whn i wore my niqab evryone left me
I did like u to be my friend here is my add reemy_roses@hotmail.com

[salmanjabri4u]

:astag:
hi vvv nice so kind of u b my friend my e mail id
salmanjabri4u*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!

i am 4rm india hyderabad

[LeylaHussain]

Salamu alaykum,

Je suis une francaise convertie a l'Islam depuis 2 ans et demi, j'habite en Angleterre et comme toi, je n'ai pas d'amies.
Je suis mariee a un Pakistanais et j'ai un fils de 4 mois.
Je souffre pas mal de solitude egalement et si tu veux, on peut rentrer en contact oukhti.
Tu peux me PM si tu es interessee a me connaitre.
Bisous :SMILY259:

Leyla

[saira1984]

salam sister,

masha allah u sound like a very sincere sister, I've also been feeling alone as I moved to London to live with my husband but his family and I dont really get on..... I've made a few friends since living here but I am also a revert of 2 years and also find it difficult sometimes. :shymuslima1:

Adhumdillah you are coming to uk and insha allah we can met up anytime :hijabi: That goes for anyone else in London its always nice to meet fellow sisters :hearts:


If you ever want to pm me please feel free to do so:hijabi:

Wasalam Saira x

[hager]

salam,
i hope u're fine...i guess,ur day..wasn't good
seems...from ur topic
i'd be happy to be ur friend
u could PM me...
i sware,i 'll never cheat on u,speard ur secrets
i'll care about u
i'll support u,sister
so,don't be sad,plzzzzzzzzzz.
it's okey..Smile,cheese,
islam's beautiful:hearts:that's why we have to smile..cuz,we're muslims
salam
PS:the second member..,.who posted u..she was only want u as afriend...

[Libinette]

Salamu alaykum,

Je suis une francaise convertie a l'Islam depuis 2 ans et demi, j'habite en Angleterre et comme toi, je n'ai pas d'amies.
Je suis mariee a un Pakistanais et j'ai un fils de 4 mois.
Je souffre pas mal de solitude egalement et si tu veux, on peut rentrer en contact oukhti.
Tu peux me PM si tu es interessee a me connaitre.
Bisous :SMILY259:

Leyla


Salaam aleikum

Je suis francais aussi, et je vis en Angleterre depuis environ 3 ans maintenant.. si tu veux on peut faire connaissance inshallah:hearts::hearts:

[isabelelsherif]

welcome sister to this wonderful website here you find many wonderful friends even thou i am not in the UK i would love to be your friend i myself am like you very shy and now that i have converted i am so desperately trying to make muslim friends the only person i speak to is my husband everyone else that i know are non muslims that are my family and my coworkers and 2 old friends so if you would like to chat some time just count on me and you can send me private message anytime

thanks

:tti_sister:

[Hafza]

Salaam sister, just remember allah swt is always by ur side and times like this u should turn to Allah:tti_sister:. u can count me as ur friend. welcome to this site:muslim_child:

[Delyan]

Salamu alaykum,

Je suis une francaise convertie a l'Islam depuis 2 ans et demi, j'habite en Angleterre et comme toi, je n'ai pas d'amies.
Je suis mariee a un Pakistanais et j'ai un fils de 4 mois.
Je souffre pas mal de solitude egalement et si tu veux, on peut rentrer en contact oukhti.
Tu peux me PM si tu es interessee a me connaitre.
Bisous :SMILY259:

Leyla

salam

je viens tout juste de lire tous vos messages les tiens et ceux d' autres soeurs qui m ont beaucoup touchés :))
je viens juste de déménager sur Reading, j' étais sur Taunton avant enfin toute une histoire que je te raconterais volontiers si j ' ai l' honneur de te rencontrer
pour moi ce serait en effet sincèrement génial de faire ta connaissance et ce à bien des niveaux
je te prie de bien vouloir me répondre aussitôt que tu auras lu mon messsage qu' on puisse échanger nos contacts

au plaisir de te lire

delyan
wa salam

[Delyan]

Salaam sister, just remember allah swt is always by ur side and times like this u should turn to Allah:tti_sister:. u can count me as ur friend. welcome to this site:muslim_child:

salam sister, thank u so much, I appreciate that

looking forward to hearing from u

delyan

wa salam

[summertime]

Salam sister!!

Don't worry InshAllah you will make some good friends once you arrive here in the U.K....I'm from the U.K aswell but not from london i live up north...Interestingly enough i'm studying psychology aswell...In my final year now...are you doing a BSc or are you studying at masters level?

:wasalam:

[summertime]

ooops i just realised this is a very old thread..hehehe..Its 2008 now..hope you were able to adjust well!!!

[Delyan]

ooops i just realised this is a very old thread..hehehe..Its 2008 now..hope you were able to adjust well!!!


no worries !!
Im still loking for friends, I am now in my 1st year of master
hope to hearing from u
wa salam

delyan--

[summertime]

:salam2: sister

Wow thats brilliant..i felt a bit stupid when i checked the date of the thread!!..lol...dont hesitate to get in touch any time though...I know it's hard to make new friends when you move to a new place but don't worry inshAllah you have all us sisters on TTI...I'm in my final semester of Bsc (hons) psychology...can't wait to finish though.. What are you doing your masters in?

:wasalam:

[Delyan]

Mash' Allah.. lucky you !! I still have 3 semesters ahead..
Here in France, Im preparing a master called " clinical psychopathology" ..
Thats very very interesting to study the human being. I don't loose any opportunity to extend that to Islam, Sobhan Allah, we re really little things !!
.............
I m looking forward to receive ur news :))
plz feel free to contact me whenever u want, Im back to London to join my hubby next 21st inshalah for the 10 days bank holidays we ve here in Paris

Hope to meet there !



wa salam

[summertime]

:salam2:

clinical psychopathology!! wow sounds interesting...i don't think i will continue with psychology after my BSc though..working on my dissertation(final year project) these days..Ive chosen IPA..quantative research scares me..lol

:wasalam:

[sajjuaiah]

As-salaam Alaikum,

Warm welcome to this beautiful community.

May Allah keep you and family happy; here and hereafter.

I am very far but my dua's are always near to my brothers and sisters.

I love them and respect them i pray for them always.

May Allah protect you always.

Jazakmullah Hu-Khairan.

[Delyan]

As-salaam Alaikum,

Warm welcome to this beautiful community.

May Allah keep you and family happy; here and hereafter.

I am very far but my dua's are always near to my brothers and sisters.

I love them and respect them i pray for them always.

May Allah protect you always.

Jazakmullah Hu-Khairan.

jazak Allah o kheer sister, we miss ppl like u ..

[pakidr]

:wasalam::shake:
Dear UK seems to me the country of sisters:ma:i am here for past few months and i have experince of 2,3 cities........though i could not come across many sister groups because of my professional commitments but i assure you ,you will not feel lonely here at all.............:)rather you will be astonished to see sisters activities here and you will find good company,whichever city you will decide to live,Inshallah..................till then you can find company over here(i mean tti).......ohhhhh lucky you r having time to find company:)i dont know where my time goes?,after daily chores of home:)

[süperman]

es salamu aleykum

this happens sometimes to me too. i am study in pakistan since 2004 and since couple years most of day i feel alone, purposeless and in lack of appetite. i used to miss my coutry a lot and sometimes my language too but i know i should complete my task here. when i was going abroad first time for study one old scholar gave me advise that he said when you feel so much boredom during in far out make zikr (recite and remember) one of the name of Allah (which i forget unfourtunely) after salatul cuma(friday) till asr prayer. it might me "Es Sabr" perhaps but i am not sure.

considiring a muslim women in the middle of europe perhaps might be hard, who struggles with looks and misconceptions stuck on faces everyday. one of the solution of beating boredom is to be social in life. outside the university you might have some activities, courses. it's not antithetic to have friends from other beliefs till you have some limitation in your living. even you can narrate and talk with them about islam step by step. talking about art, music, and share some opinions also good to kill boredom sometimes. but there is boredom which created from the beginning. it's part of our life unfortunetly.

german philosopher, Schopenhauer, said in his book "Metaphysics of Love" that mentioned, "if there was no happiness and miseries in life people were going to suffer from boredom whole life."

maas salamah

[kafeelah1]

Assalam alaekun sister! All praises and thanks to Allah for reverting you to islam. You can count on me as your friend,too.In fact,you can count on all Muslim sisters as your friends,even though you cannot meet all of them. I hope am making a bit of sense. Well, i know, it may sound a bit unrealistic that all Muslim sisters should be your friend, but isn't that the essence of Islam;to bring mankind together irrespective their race and colour. My advice to you is that you pray to Allah to keep you in the company of the righteous who would be helping you forward in islam and not hypocrites.Amin! After all,isn't it Allah's Words that He created us ,so that we may know each other?! So once again, i welcome you to the religion of peace and hospitality! Assalam alaekun from your friend in UK!

[kafeelah1]

:hijabi::wasalam:Assalam alaekun sister! All praises and thanks to Allah for reverting you to islam. You can count on me as your friend,too.In fact,you can count on all Muslim sisters as your friends,even though you cannot meet all of them. I hope am making a bit of sense. Well, i know, it may sound a bit unrealistic that all Muslim sisters should be your friend, but isn't that the essence of Islam;to bring mankind together irrespective their race and colour. My advice to you is that you pray to Allah to keep you in the company of the righteous who would be helping you forward in islam and not hypocrites.Amin! After all,isn't it Allah's Words that He created us ,so that we may know each other?! So once again, i welcome you to the religion of peace and hospitality! Assalam alaekun from your friend in UK!:hijabi:

[Delyan]

el salam aaleykom,

I really and deeply wish to thank u all for ur kindness and ur solidarity.
I feel very proud and so gladdd to belong to such a community and u guys are so so wonderful. Even if this message I left is not reflecting my life anymore, I m happy to read ur warmful and positive messages..
I live in the UK, I sincerly want to meet sisters there
Is there anyone who d be interested ?
:))))
wa salam girls !

delyan
Hanan s my real name.. :)

[aishajor]

welcome to the forum...


im from birmingham in england

[Angela Hillyer]

Salam alaikom sister Hanan

[Angela Hillyer]

Salam alaikom, woopps sorry i pressed enter before i was finished the message lol, i am still learning to touch type. :)

I think i can definatley relate to you, being a revert myself, it has been almost one year for me. I am very lonely and the only girls i talk to are girls in Sydney, (i live in Australia on the Gold Coast) so the only communication i have with sisters is on the net.

But I got your PM the other day and i added you on msn so insha'allah we will speak soon and share our stories of how we reverted to islam. I think for some reverts, when they dont have that much support, there iman is like a thermometer and it goes up and down. Having the support of sisters and being around people who always speak of islam will keep you iman high and strong insha'allah.

hope to speak to you soon insha'allah. take care insha'allah,
salam, asiya

[Rana Sabir Ali]

Dont Warry
This rana sabir ali from pakistan u may call me brother Or friend and never thin that u r alon there r billion muslims with u from around the globe. u may contact me at my mail address ranasabirali at yahoo dot com

[dream world]

:salam2:
how are you sister ,,,and wish u have a very good life

[one_ummah3]

assalamu aleikum ,:tti_sister:
how are you? i too am from london and would love to meet up with you or any sisters in this area. it can feel very lonely sometimes but at least we can be sure that allah is with us in these difficult times. feel free to pm sis! would love to chat to you!! :ma:
love your sister

[Sammina]

Salaam sister!

Ah, you have another friend now - ME!!

[Al-Salam]

i read your post, and trust me i felt exactly the same. i im 16 and there are not many morrocains or friends i could hang out with after school, or they visite me at my house, and vice versa. anyway the norwegians like to stay with their own or if they have foreign friends they are adopted, but i'm not. then you have other foreign cultures who would like to hang out with their own, what can i say, people. with their people. it has been like this in every country, place i moved to. so i get used to it. ii have class-mates, but their class-mates who talk to you about an asignment. now im doing them a favour by trying not talk to them or just simply ignoring them.
that really felt good to write. should probably buy my self a diary.

wa 3alaikoum el salam wa rahmat'allah wa barakatou.
- manal.

[summertime]

hmmmm strange!! wasn't this thread in the sisters section?

[farashe7]

Welacome sister count me as your friend "NO PERSONAL INFO ALLOWED"

[Greek_Rose_2005]

asalam alikoum sister Hanan, I dont live in UK but you can count me as a sister, have you made any friends there now that you in uk? I shouls go back read all the posts i say first post was from 06 so i jumped to last and before last page hehehe...I am usa but im so so happy have you as friend and sister and yes you know all sisters need feel someone there to listen to them and understand them and esp for the revert sisters as often the family exclude them like mine have nothing to do with me and very few ex friends from before convert...i know what you mean also some people very reserved and quiet and when one is shy it can be hard breaking that barrier that is great thing with sister section in TTI we all sisters and inshallah can call each other friends...though sometimes people argue a bit and some more out spoken then others but we have to love each other as we family be religion of islam just like we have to love our physical family too and each one different..

[habib786]

welcome sister to TTI family ................ have a pleasant stay .....

jazak allah

[fatima zahra]

welcome sister u can PM me i'm from morocco me too i want to have some friends from TTI and this is my hotmail "NO PERSONAL INFO ALLOWED" all sisters u r welcome in every time i like to talk about deen and i hope to have a lot of friends inchallah

[nadya]

as-salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatu
:SMILY206: to TTI, inshaAllah you’ll have a pleasant and long stay sister http://i238.photobucket.com/albums/ff128/_NADYA_/EMOTICOANE/rose1.gif

Looking forward your posts.

May ALLAH (swt) keep us all on the right path.
:hearts:

[zarah]

:salam2:

NO PERSONAL INFO SHOULD BE DISPLAYED ON POST,PLEASE READ RULES!

:wasalam:

[SpiritOfIslam]

:salam2:
:SMILY206: enjoy your stay

:wasalam:

[cmelbouzaidi]

Do not worry, Sister! You have many sisters all over the globe, Alhamdulillah and our community is growing. If you have a chance to join a class at a masjid on the weekends, it may be beneficial. I live in Florida and my Muslim sisters are the most sincere friends, Alhamdulillah. Soon I will be moving to Paris, Insha Allah, and would like to meet up with and befriend more Muslim sisters, too.

May Allah bless each of you and may your du'aa be answered.

Catherine Iman Elbouzaidi

[oegt_basmallah]

El salam aleykom,

I am a 25 years old french and moroccan sister who wears el hijab since 3 years. I am married since about 2 years now and I have a simple life el 7amdolilah. I am studying psychology since 3 years..
Well, actually, u may say by reading that " and then ? .." In fact, except my tender husband, my parents, and a few cousines so far away from me, I haven't any friends, anyone to talk to, to have and consider as a real mate.Even though i know somepersons at university, it s the same, and everyday, from many many years, i m suffering from being alone. I am someone very shy and smetimes, i easily loose my confidence but i did try to make friends, and go ahead by meeting other sisters..Here in France, sisters are a little " closed" well it s not easy to come and say " hi im a sister and i need a friend are u ookay to become one of them "..Since a few months, I have decided to move to the uk with my husband whose there now. I m gonna go to him soon inshalah when I ll complete this year. All I hope is to find a sister kind and modest and as simple as i am as honest as i am just to share great moments between sisters as friends do and to break this loneliness that is really affecting me so much
Why have I mentionned converted muslim girls ? simply cause i just watched many videos about girls and women,..who turned in islam and i found there a kind of common point with me : after the 1st step of wearing hijab, many of them feel alone to face their new lives and even mosques, and conferences and many other opportunities are there to help us to break this, it s hard to feel alone and go forward without any friends..
Jazakom Allah kheir we el salam aaleykom dear sisters


Merh7babik 3andna

welcome dear sis

[newsister26]

Assalaum Alaykum Sister,
I am a sister from a Christian background in the US, recently converted, so far this is the hardest and at the same time most wonderful thing I have ever undertaken. I will be traveling with my job in a short time to come, and inshallah hopefully I will always be near a local mosque, because in my experience so far, some of the warmest, and most welcoming people I have met there. I believe Allah will bless you for these struggles you have had to endure, but I asure you sister I will be a friend to you as best I can.