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Umm Aysha
05-16-2007, 11:29 AM
Asalaamu Alaykum


There's something in a simple hug that always warms the heart,
It welcomes us back home and makes it easier to part.

A hug's a way to share the joy and sad times we go through,
Or just a way for friends to say they like you 'cause you're you.

Hugs are meant for anyone for whom we really care,
From your grandma to your neighbor,
Or a cuddly teddy bear.

A hug is an amazing thing, it's just the perfect way,
To show the love we're feeling but can't find the words to say.
It's funny how a little hug makes everyone feel good,
In every place and language, It's always understood.

And hugs don't need new equipment,
Special batteries or parts
Just open up your arms
And open up your hearts.

wasalam

Globalpeace
05-16-2007, 12:25 PM
W-Salam,

Great poem and I am a Hug-O-Phobic i.e. I hate hugs.

It's so bad that people in the Mosque now talk about me as somone who NEVER makes physical contact. :astag:

Asalaamu Alaykum


There's something in a simple hug that always warms the heart,
It welcomes us back home and makes it easier to part.

A hug's a way to share the joy and sad times we go through,
Or just a way for friends to say they like you 'cause you're you.

Hugs are meant for anyone for whom we really care,
From your grandma to your neighbor,
Or a cuddly teddy bear.

A hug is an amazing thing, it's just the perfect way,
To show the love we're feeling but can't find the words to say.
It's funny how a little hug makes everyone feel good,
In every place and language, It's always understood.

And hugs don't need new equipment,
Special batteries or parts
Just open up your arms
And open up your hearts.

wasalam

talkadams
05-16-2007, 12:33 PM
umm aysha u a verse,i really appreciate this verse,expecially the verse of hug,
my prayer thus are: may ALLAH bless us with a parter to present this charity called hug.

alkathiri
05-16-2007, 03:14 PM
:salam2:

I love to see brothers hugging mashAllah..kissing right , left , right...

Umm Aysha
05-16-2007, 04:47 PM
W-Salam,

Great poem and I am a Hug-O-Phobic i.e. I hate hugs.:

Asalaamu Alaykum

How can you hate hugs.... i love my cuddles :SMILY126:

wasalam

Globalpeace
05-16-2007, 05:28 PM
W-Salam,

I hate physical contact of any kind including handshakes!

Can't stand it.

Asalaamu Alaykum

How can you hate hugs.... i love my cuddles :SMILY126:

wasalam

Umm Aysha
05-16-2007, 05:38 PM
Asalaamu Alaykum

Bro im sorry but i gota say this....your weird lol... dont take it to heart just sister way of saying it :) ive never known anyone to hate physical contact...lol

:wasalam:

Globalpeace
05-16-2007, 07:06 PM
W-Salam,

MJ also hates physical contact; the guy sleeps in an oxygen tent!

So I have some way to go yet. :)

P.S: Yes I have been told many times that I am weird so no hard feelings. Sis/
Asalaamu Alaykum

Bro im sorry but i gota say this....your weird lol... dont take it to heart just sister way of saying it :) ive never known anyone to hate physical contact...lol

:wasalam:

justoneofmillion
05-16-2007, 07:27 PM
assalamu why don`t you try with a teddy bear or something go around with it and everytime somebody wants to hug you give them the teddy bear....lol
i used to do this when i was little and knew my aunts or their girl friends were coming home because they would hug me play with my cheeks and make me full of saliva all day long i hated it! so i had the teddy bear alternative i would just give them the teddy bear haha :SMILY303:

hussain.mahammed
05-16-2007, 08:43 PM
As salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wabrakatuhu
We had a Sheikh in our local mosque when i was a kid, around 6-7 years old. Everytime I saw him, I used to run away coz at first he would pull my cheek so badly, and then give me such a huge hug, I would faint at times.
Its been a long time since i met him last.
Good to have such sweet memories.
Anyways I did not like him at all that time..lol
wa/salam

hussain.mahammed
05-16-2007, 08:46 PM
When I was a kid, I used to avoid 2 of my good Muslim uncles. They would give such a huge tight hug when they met me that my ribs made noise.

Umm Aysha
05-16-2007, 10:05 PM
When I was a kid, I used to avoid 2 of my good Muslim uncles. They would give such a huge tight hug when they met me that my ribs made noise.

Asalaamu Alaykum

Oooh that gave me cringe down my back... hope they dint break ya ribs lol..

Globalpeace
05-16-2007, 11:31 PM
Nightmares tonight for me!

All this touchy, feely stuff :angryblue:

hussain.mahammed
05-17-2007, 06:50 AM
Nightmares tonight for me!

All this touchy, feely stuff

You cant avoid it akhee..lol :) :biggrin:

marzuki mohamed
05-17-2007, 07:41 AM
:wasalam:


..im o.k with handshakes(men only)...as for hugging i prf by relative old man..


but no kiss pls..it's something reminde me of yasser Arafat ayy hehe :) :) (jokes).

well bro.. every ppl got their own allergic/hypersensitivity i think.

anyhow this is normal in some country as their own culture apart e.g like in

Saudi Arabia,Palestine..




wasalam.

farhopes
05-17-2007, 10:34 AM
How about a big hug now???:) I really liked your poem very much. It's very enteresting. By the way, I'm a SISTER like you, so it's ok if I ask for a hug.:wink:

Globalpeace
05-17-2007, 10:45 AM
W-Salam,

Ah! Can't stand being kissed my grown men...

They used to do it to me on purpose in Saudia because they knew I didn't like it :angryblue:

I have Arab parents of children in the Islamic school & they do this to me all the time...Come on Akhi! Give us a Big Hug...

:wasalam:


..im o.k with handshakes(men only)...as for hugging i prf by relative old man..


but no kiss pls..it's something reminde me of yasser Arafat ayy hehe :) :) (jokes).

well bro.. every ppl got their own allergic/hypersensitivity i think.

anyhow this is normal in some country as their own culture apart e.g like in

Saudi Arabia,Palestine..




wasalam.

Umm Aysha
05-17-2007, 10:46 AM
Wa alaykum salaam sis farhopes

Ofcourse i will hug you sis, i love my hugs, but no-one ever around to hug :(

Noor to shine
05-17-2007, 10:50 AM
:salam2: one muslem scholar wrote:
When :Two brothers (or two sisters) shook hands, and did that with all the warmth of their heart. They smiled. They laughed. It is said there: Before they could unlock their hands, their past sins will be forgiven. Now what did they do? Nothing but something natural, yet they were blessed with the gift of forgiveness. So, let us forآ*!get not that our Akhirah emerges from within the environs of this dunya.

:shake: :shake: :shake: :shake: :shake: :shake: :shake: :shake: :shake: :shake:

alkathiri
05-17-2007, 11:28 AM
W-Salam,

Ah! Can't stand being kissed my grown men...

They used to do it to me on purpose in Saudia because they knew I didn't like it :angryblue:

I have Arab parents of children in the Islamic school & they do this to me all the time...Come on Akhi! Give us a Big Hug...

:salam2:
Spot on...
Thats why i love to hug...lol
i can give u one if u want ...lol...haha...neh...

farhopes
05-17-2007, 12:35 PM
Wa alaykum salaam sis farhopes

Ofcourse i will hug you sis, i love my hugs, but no-one ever around to hug :(
I'm sorry for that. Actually the only one I hug is my little nephew:) . He is only 1 year old. It's really great to hug him. He seems to like our hugs, but I think that after three or four years,he may change his mind

alkathiri
05-17-2007, 12:49 PM
I'm sorry for that. Actually the only one I hug is my little nephew:) . He is only 1 year old. It's really great to hug him. He seems to like our hugs, but I think that after three or four years,he may change his mind

:salam2:
Actually quite simple sister , make dua that your brother or sister have more children so that u have more to hug next time....inshAllah

Umm Aysha
05-17-2007, 02:07 PM
Actually the only one I hug is my little nephew:) . He is only 1 year old. It's really great to hug him. He seems to like our hugs, but I think that after three or four years,he may change his mind

Asalaamu Alaykum

Aww masha-allah thats so sweet, i hug my nieces and nephews too, my nephew is 6 masha-allah but he still a baby in my eyes hehe...:muslim_child:

Abdul-Raheem
05-17-2007, 02:17 PM
:salam2:

Nothing wrong with hugs but I do NOT like being kissed on the cheek by other MEN! :eek: I remember meeting some Brothers in Egypt, one them aimed a kiss at me and I practically ducked! From then on I kept my distance; better safe than sorry....:SMILY259:

wasalam

Umm Aysha
05-17-2007, 02:40 PM
I remember meeting some Brothers in Egypt, one them aimed a kiss at me and I practically ducked!

:salam2:

:lol: classic!!